Why Do So Many Guys Marry The Hb7-8 That I Won't

[KoalaKing]

Today I am 38 years of age, but I have only ever met about one dozen girls that I would love to have married, they were all super gorgeous.

In spite of this tragic fact I am semi attracted to probably one in every five girls that I see, yet I lose interest in them very quickly, but everytime that I have dated a HB7-8 and decided not to marry her, some other guy not long afterwards was prepared to marry her and did so to my amazement.

I have only ever dated two girls that I would have stayed with and married given the opportunity, they both had gorgeous model like looks, as well as both being many years younger than me, in fact they both looked very similar in appearance to each other and so did the ten or so other beauties whom I desired to have as my own, but unfortunately couldn't get.

I have always had a vision or a dream type girl that I desire to be with, but none of the girls that I could have married ever fitted this mould, they were all attractive say HB7-8's in looks, but I could not bring myself to marrying any of them, yet in every single case, these girls who desperately desired to marry, quickly found another reasonable looking guy to marry them.

Throughout my life everyone who knows me, even my own mum and grandma, who are still alive, cannot believe how fussy I am when it comes to my desires to obtain my perfect dream girl wife.

This saddens me as these girls have been hurt by the facts that I cannot make the commitment to marry, even though I have many times tried my hardest to find the power within me to marry one of these HB7-8's but my dream has always stopped it from happening.

I cannot understand why these other guys who marry these girls don't have the same dreams as I do when it comes to being with the ultimate beauty, nor can I understand why I have this dream built within me myself.

I wonder if anyone else who writes on these threads is like this, sometimes I wish that I wasn't semi attracted to 20% of the girls that I meet, when I am only fully attracted to only 1 in every 10,000 that I meet if it is that many, it is very hard to take in reality.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

To each his own. So what you seem more particular in comparison, why does it matter anyway?

 

[MightyMate]

You would prefer if everybody chased same girl?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Who are you kidding? You have a fear of commitment. You know there is no such thing as perfection yet you continue on this wild goose chase to avoid marriage and growing up. It is just an excuse that maybe even you believe by now because you have told yourself this crap for so long.

 

[ADifferentKindofDJ]

I'd like to hang out with you, cause I'm looking for that one that I will marry. Maybe you could help me out?

All kidding aside though...

It defenately sounds like you have a fear of comitment. Or it could be that you can do better, that's why you get bored so soon. And not knowing the girls you're seeing, I'd guess that 7-8's are below what you can attract. I think you need to just date 7 and up and let fate do the rest...

That fact that you're upset about them getting married after you date them suggests that you are wanting to move on past the dating phase of a dj. (I've been here for awhile) My last GF got married 3 months after we broke up. (Thank god it wasn't me!)

btw... part of being a dj is not settling for anything below your dreams.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

There are more important qualities to a woman than being the mythical HB10 (no such thing.)

The worst part about it is that you are 38 and need to ask such a silly question to a group of strangers...