"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why Do So Many Guys Have Poor Taste in Women?

SharinganUser

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This year when I was overseas 4 women asked me the same question. Why do you see so many non-Chinese guys dating such ugly (Chinese) women? One girl even commented that she often sees foreign guys dating women "so ugly she looks like she should be scrubbing the floor."

Now I'd like to say that it was just cultural difference, but I don't think so. I come back to the west and find out those *****es on Jersey Shore are considered sex symbols? Am I missing something? They're as ugly on the inside as they are on the outside. Then a few days ago I turn on my TV and that retard Dr. Phil is yapping away about men's infidelity, and the four mistresses he was interviewing couldn't have been older or uglier if they got hit by a ford model T car. Now I am not advocating cheating on your wife, but at least do it with someone who couldn't be mistaken for your wife.

I'd also like to share with you all something valuable that I've learned recently about having high standards. Women want to feel like they are part of an elite group beautiful women that you've dated, while at the same time they don't want to be the most beautiful of said group.

Let's say you accidentally leave a photo of your ex out and your current girlfriend see's it. If the ex is hot, your GF will think that she is also somewhat hot. She'll also think "wow if he leaves me, he'll have no problems getting another hottie." She may even think "I am not as pretty as her so he must be staying with me for more than just looks."

If on the other hand the ex is UGLY, your current girlfriend will think "WTF? He dated this hog? Am I this ugly? Crap this guy will sleep with anyone. What a loser."

It's really alarming to me the number of guys out there who are willing to settle for some ugly fat piece of ****. Which brings me back to my original question, why do so many guys have such awful taste in women?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vice

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Ever heard of the term "cannon fodder"?

We need guys with no standards to take the ugly ones while us frontline officers take out the high value targets.
 

SharinganUser

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Vice said:
Ever heard of the term "cannon fodder"?

We need guys with no standards to take the ugly ones while us frontline officers take out the high value targets.

lol, We can call it Operation Get Behind The Uglies.
 

badboyjmm

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SharinganUser said:
why do so many guys have such awful taste in women?
I don't think guys in general have a awful taste in women. In my opinion there's guys that are so desperate that they take whatever they can. It's hard for some guys to hit the gym, learn game and focus on other things other than women, so they settle.

Also, there's some couples that truly care less about the physical look of their partner (rare but I've seen it couple of times)

I'd also like to share with you all something valuable that I've learned recently about having high standards. Women want to feel like they are part of an elite group beautiful women that you've dated, while at the same time they don't want to be the most beautiful of said group.
True, but to have high standards, you gotta have high standards for yourself. Some guys just don't wanna put the effort and they are stuck believing they can't get good looking girls (negative thoughts affecting their reality) and just end up settling (reinforcing their negative thoughts and creating a vicious cycle)
 
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