"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Why do rich guys get married?

Joined
May 19, 2007
Messages
80
Reaction score
5
I'm going to try out for America's Got Talent in a few weeks (stand up comedy), and who knows? But I was just watching a Mariah Carey video, she's married to AGT host Nick Cannon. Now, Mariah Carey is still really hot. But she's just one of literally countless really hot women he could get. Why would a man in that position limit himself? He's only an example. The Derek Jeters and George Clooneys, the playboys, seem so rare. I've heard that because they're in the public eye, it's for appearances that guys get married. I've heard that many of these high profile couples have agreements: do what you have to do, but don't embarrass me by getting caught. In return for raising his offspring and looking the other way, she lives a life most can only imagine. Good work if you can get it I guess. Then of course there's the theory of every woman and AFC, "maybe they're in love!". I don't like kids, so the offspring part wouldn't matter to me. But is it really just for appearances that these guys get married? What looks so bad about being a playboy?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

skinnyguy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 2, 2013
Messages
3,422
Reaction score
1,235
Well for Nick Cannon, he's a pretty smart guy because she has way more money than him and he's enjoying all of that.

The real issue is why would a rich guy marry a woman who doesn't have her own money. In my opinion it's stupid, unless there's a prenup. Then again, if he can get sex easily it doesn't make sense even if there's a prenup.
 

foreverAFC

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 31, 2012
Messages
1,202
Reaction score
137
CasanovaFrankenstein said:
I'm going to try out for America's Got Talent in a few weeks (stand up comedy), and who knows? But I was just watching a Mariah Carey video, she's married to AGT host Nick Cannon. Now, Mariah Carey is still really hot. But she's just one of literally countless really hot women he could get. Why would a man in that position limit himself? He's only an example. The Derek Jeters and George Clooneys, the playboys, seem so rare. I've heard that because they're in the public eye, it's for appearances that guys get married. I've heard that many of these high profile couples have agreements: do what you have to do, but don't embarrass me by getting caught. In return for raising his offspring and looking the other way, she lives a life most can only imagine. Good work if you can get it I guess. Then of course there's the theory of every woman and AFC, "maybe they're in love!". I don't like kids, so the offspring part wouldn't matter to me. But is it really just for appearances that these guys get married? What looks so bad about being a playboy?

well nick cannons case is a bit different i would assume, mariah carey was probably a girl he jerked it to for years before he got famous, so being with her must be like being with his dream girl, its different

what i dont understand is regular rich guys who run a business or work hard for a living, they have way more to lose and they are dating women who are usually lower quality, many of them feel they need to marry someone in order to have that picture perfect life they have been told their whole lives they need to have, these guys are much better of just dating and having gf's


btw good luck on AGT and say hi to Howard Stern for me, i love that guy
 

nismo-4

Moderator
Joined
Jan 31, 2005
Messages
4,438
Reaction score
1,142
Location
From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
OP good luck to you, hope to see you on there.

As for your question, f**k marriage! If I were a millionaire, I'd never get married. Why? So she could have alpha fux, beta bux with me as the beta? F**k that sh*t!
 

str8-2-BONEzone

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 23, 2012
Messages
43
Reaction score
1
:box: u gotta be ALPHA take her to the gun show if u no what i meen :cheer:

str8 2 bone zone :rock:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Joined
May 19, 2007
Messages
80
Reaction score
5
Thanks. First I'll be auditioning for the producers and then they decide who they want to come back in a few months for the TV tapings, then that's when you perform in front of the celebrity judges.

As for my question yeah I guess a lot of guys get married just because society says you're "supposed to". And apparently having someone to raise their kids is a big part of it too.

BTW Happy New Year everybody.
 

Mr Wright

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 19, 2010
Messages
980
Reaction score
243
Location
London, UK
To have a hot wife, in some circles having a hot wife is better than having countless random encounters.

Trophy wives may as well be tied to a rope on the front lawn in their lingerie.
 

Greasy Pig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2009
Messages
1,675
Reaction score
102
Location
Australia
I think STDs probably have a bit to do with it.
Why bang slores with a condom and still run the risk of pregnancy or herpes when you can commit to one hottie and bone her raw dog, guilt free and without fear.
Mind you, if I had fame and/money, I'd be banging like a door in a storm, but then I think the security of monogamy would eventually be quite appealing.
Or you could be like Clooney and just exclusively date hottie after hottie for a few months at a time.
 

_sideways_

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2013
Messages
1,919
Reaction score
218
It's banging like a screen door during a hurricane.....and the George clooney retirement plan is what I'm on. After a couple of months, I need variety.
 

PlayHer Man

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
190
Location
East Coast USA
Being rich doesn't mean you're not a huge beta faggot.

Beta is a state of mind and many rich and powerful men still want that Disney princess in the back of their minds. This is why they get taken to the cleaners by gold diggers time and time again. :trouble:

As long as a man pedestalizes women.. he is a faggot. It doesn't matter how much fame, money or power he has. He is still a faggot.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Greasy Pig

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2009
Messages
1,675
Reaction score
102
Location
Australia
_sideways_ said:
It's banging like a screen door during a hurricane....
I'm in Australia mate and we say: "Bang like a dunny door in a cyclone." But I generalised for the benefit of the non-Aussie brethren.
 
Top