"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do people want to feel important?

InnerHappiness

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Someone on this forum, who claims to have banged over 100 women is continuously trying to throat feed me his pathetic journal and blog and times. Why do people feel the need to do so?

If you have banged over 100 women, do you seriously need the validation anymore? Something tells me we have a hypocrite.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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InnerHappiness said:
Someone on this forum, who claims to have banged over 100 women is continuously trying to throat feed me his pathetic journal and blog and times. Why do people feel the need to do so?

If you have banged over 100 women, do you seriously need the validation anymore? Something tells me we have a hypocrite.
The number is not important. 100 is not enough for some people. 10 might be enough for the next. Here's what I say, bro. To each his own. The question you want to ask yourself is, "Am I content with MY number?" If so, f*ck him. If not, change it
 

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InnerHappiness said:
Someone on this forum, who claims to have banged over 100 women is continuously trying to throat feed me his pathetic journal and blog and times. Why do people feel the need to do so?

If you have banged over 100 women, do you seriously need the validation anymore? Something tells me we have a hypocrite.
It makes me laugh as well. I find people who "brag", really annoying. It's pathetic, no one cares...
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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All people who brag have an inferiority complex and something to "prove" to others.

As long as you are seeking validation from things OUTSIDE yourself.. you will always be a miserable faggot. It doesn't matter how much money you make, how famous you get or how many women you f*ck.

To be a real man you really have to know who you are, what you value, and what's important to you. Then live accordingly with little regard for who approves or disapproves. Bragging is just another form of attention wh0ring.

You only need the approval of others to utilize them and create alliances. This allows you to function in society and be respected. For instance... if you walk around with pink hair and never use deodorant most people won't respect you and you will have problems functioning in society.

Most people haven't learned the difference between seeking approval to get further in life vs. seeking approval for emotional reasons.

As others have posted.. its possible he just wants your money. :yes:
 
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