"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do people think Im trying to be better then everyone?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kings_royalty

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edmond said:
If you are better than the rest, then well done:rockon: . Most of the people I see, men AND women look like sacks of sh*t. Why should you lower your high standards?
If you are an Alpha, why should you care what the rabble think?
Unfortunately, this attitude pushes people away, it doesn't draw them in (which is what you want). You can portray your 'high standards' and ‘alpha status' in a cool seductive way. Acting arrogant makes people feel bad about themselves, makes them feel insecure, this will only hurt your efforts moving forward.

Arrogance: Repels
 

Zebedee

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Dont worry about it people often confuse caring about your appearance with vanity. I get the same **** all the time.
 

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By the way, if you're well-dressed and not the life of the party, throw yourself into the crowd and start jabbering away. There's a thin line between "being mysterious" and just being a jerk who doesn't want to associate with anyone. Be personable.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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