Being_the_Don
Master Don Juan
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Do you ever look at some people who have set standards for themselves then throw it out the window b/c of pressure? And it's not just about relationships but education, career, exercise, etc. Why just take what others expect of them instead of just going for what they want? In the end (because that's what it is) all they've got is regret. They might try to rationalize by saying it's not all that bad b/c at least they got such and such out of it (if they're married that usually means a kid) but what does it matter if they're not happy? And why please other people instead of yourself? Even when others try to tell you what to do, who you should date, etc. why listen to them? The best way to tell them to Fcuk off is to live your own life. :trouble: To win just keep going for what you want even if at the moment it looks like you aren't getting it. But instead most people settle, give up on their goals and just take what comes along or go searching for what others tell them they should have. Why are some of the people who seemingly are happy people who actually settle for less? What's gained from copping out?