"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why do people keep saying that this is a site for guys with girl problems?

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I don't fvcking get this BS?!

Not everyone here is a pimply computer nerd who never got kissed in his 30 years on this planet. I am sure some guys here are virgins and losers who need a wakeup call that some of the community provides, but in general, are all of you here because you have problems???

Personally, i've NEVER had girl problems. Every g/f I've had, I broke up with myself, never had a girl i REALLY wanted resist me for more than a while, etc..

The only reason I am here is because I want to grow my abilities and be able to increase the quality and quantity of women that i get. That's all. I can get laid, i can get ONS, i can get a hot g/f, but thats all easy. I want to be able to get any woman i want, whenever i want, however I want.

So what's the deal with all the stereotypes of the community consisting SOLELY of nerd virgin losers?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I know what your saying the only reason im here is because I found this Site at 14,when I was 14 I had AFC mindset and was very desperate to have sex as early as possible, as I got a bit older I started changing physically and mentally now I dont need the advice here given because I do well with girls and im no longer a virgin but only come just for anything else or health fitness forums.
 

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Originally posted by Egoist
I don't fvcking get this BS?!

Not everyone here is a pimply computer nerd who never got kissed in his 30 years on this planet. I am sure some guys here are virgins and losers who need a wakeup call that some of the community provides, but in general, are all of you here because you have problems???

Personally, i've NEVER had girl problems. Every g/f I've had, I broke up with myself, never had a girl i REALLY wanted resist me for more than a while, etc..

The only reason I am here is because I want to grow my abilities and be able to increase the quality and quantity of women that i get. That's all. I can get laid, i can get ONS, i can get a hot g/f, but thats all easy. I want to be able to get any woman i want, whenever i want, however I want.

So what's the deal with all the stereotypes of the community consisting SOLELY of nerd virgin losers?

Well, your moniker certainly matches, since you do have quite the ego.

I bet you do great with women, they tend to gravitate towards douchebags.
 

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Re: Re: Why do people keep saying that this is a site for guys with girl problems?

Originally posted by bobbob
Well, your moniker certainly matches, since you do have quite the ego.

I bet you do great with women, they tend to gravitate towards douchebags.
ehh i am who i am..

im not REALLY a bad guy, i just have a 12 inch penis.
 

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I wish I found this site in HS, OMFG i was the biggest AFC, I had a case of ONE-ITIS to every girl that glanced at me. Anyway I dont have any girl problems either, just the same as you, i wanna get more, and better quality! And i found this site, WHEN I did have girl problems.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: Re: Re: Why do people keep saying that this is a site for guys with girl problems?

Originally posted by Egoist
ehh i am who i am..

im not REALLY a bad guy, i just have a 12 inch penis.
And you drive a Rolls Royce made of solid gold too i bet ...

:rolleyes:
 

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not all

I'm not one of the guys who have girl problems.

I've just been from a 3 yr LTR. ( My decision to move on. )

I'm here to enhance more of my game and scrape off the rust. Since my friends get to brag about the girls they're getting... I began thinking why not have some more of my own. ü
 

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Yeah well you can't help it if there are people out there who happen to be virgins and/or guys who have no confidence and optimism to get up off their butts and go hunt for the girls. Me personally, I'm still a virgin, but seriously, sex is overrated. Sure, sex would be awesome to have, but it's not REQUIRED for me to be a happy guy. Heck, the forums and the "bible" cover a lot of stuff about sex and ways to get sex, so I have the knowledge; only step left is to apply it when I get pretty intimate with a girl. Other than that, "sarging" isn't TOO much of a hassle.

Anyway, there are people who do happen to be AFC, so why not use your experience and skills to help those in need eh? No need to boast about how many times you got laid, or how big your penis is. That wont help others here on SOSUAVE wake up and face reality.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Why do people keep saying that this is a site for guys with girl prob

Originally posted by bobbob
And you drive a Rolls Royce made of solid gold too i bet ...

:rolleyes:
are you stalking me? :rolleyes:

seriously though, its not about the size of yoru d!ck or your bank account.

id still be an arrogant and stuck up bastard if i was 5'0, fat and poor.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hey c'mon guys!!!
whats the whining all about?

We need to help these poor guys in whatever way we can.

The reason I came here in this site in the first place is to exchange information and ideas. To get some knowledge to improve my game.

And along the way, help some other guys too. It's good for the Karma, ya know.
 

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I'm here because I enjoy helping the less fortunate.
 
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