"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do people keep saying that this is a site for guys with girl problems?

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I don't fvcking get this BS?!

Not everyone here is a pimply computer nerd who never got kissed in his 30 years on this planet. I am sure some guys here are virgins and losers who need a wakeup call that some of the community provides, but in general, are all of you here because you have problems???

Personally, i've NEVER had girl problems. Every g/f I've had, I broke up with myself, never had a girl i REALLY wanted resist me for more than a while, etc..

The only reason I am here is because I want to grow my abilities and be able to increase the quality and quantity of women that i get. That's all. I can get laid, i can get ONS, i can get a hot g/f, but thats all easy. I want to be able to get any woman i want, whenever i want, however I want.

So what's the deal with all the stereotypes of the community consisting SOLELY of nerd virgin losers?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know what your saying the only reason im here is because I found this Site at 14,when I was 14 I had AFC mindset and was very desperate to have sex as early as possible, as I got a bit older I started changing physically and mentally now I dont need the advice here given because I do well with girls and im no longer a virgin but only come just for anything else or health fitness forums.
 
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Originally posted by Egoist
I don't fvcking get this BS?!

Not everyone here is a pimply computer nerd who never got kissed in his 30 years on this planet. I am sure some guys here are virgins and losers who need a wakeup call that some of the community provides, but in general, are all of you here because you have problems???

Personally, i've NEVER had girl problems. Every g/f I've had, I broke up with myself, never had a girl i REALLY wanted resist me for more than a while, etc..

The only reason I am here is because I want to grow my abilities and be able to increase the quality and quantity of women that i get. That's all. I can get laid, i can get ONS, i can get a hot g/f, but thats all easy. I want to be able to get any woman i want, whenever i want, however I want.

So what's the deal with all the stereotypes of the community consisting SOLELY of nerd virgin losers?
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Well, your moniker certainly matches, since you do have quite the ego.

I bet you do great with women, they tend to gravitate towards douchebags.
 
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Re: Re: Why do people keep saying that this is a site for guys with girl problems?

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Well, your moniker certainly matches, since you do have quite the ego.

I bet you do great with women, they tend to gravitate towards douchebags.
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ehh i am who i am..

im not REALLY a bad guy, i just have a 12 inch penis.
 
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I wish I found this site in HS, OMFG i was the biggest AFC, I had a case of ONE-ITIS to every girl that glanced at me. Anyway I dont have any girl problems either, just the same as you, i wanna get more, and better quality! And i found this site, WHEN I did have girl problems.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Re: Re: Re: Why do people keep saying that this is a site for guys with girl problems?

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ehh i am who i am..

im not REALLY a bad guy, i just have a 12 inch penis.
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And you drive a Rolls Royce made of solid gold too i bet ...

:rolleyes:
 
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not all

I'm not one of the guys who have girl problems.

I've just been from a 3 yr LTR. ( My decision to move on. )

I'm here to enhance more of my game and scrape off the rust. Since my friends get to brag about the girls they're getting... I began thinking why not have some more of my own. ü
 
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Yeah well you can't help it if there are people out there who happen to be virgins and/or guys who have no confidence and optimism to get up off their butts and go hunt for the girls. Me personally, I'm still a virgin, but seriously, sex is overrated. Sure, sex would be awesome to have, but it's not REQUIRED for me to be a happy guy. Heck, the forums and the "bible" cover a lot of stuff about sex and ways to get sex, so I have the knowledge; only step left is to apply it when I get pretty intimate with a girl. Other than that, "sarging" isn't TOO much of a hassle.

Anyway, there are people who do happen to be AFC, so why not use your experience and skills to help those in need eh? No need to boast about how many times you got laid, or how big your penis is. That wont help others here on SOSUAVE wake up and face reality.
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: Why do people keep saying that this is a site for guys with girl prob

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And you drive a Rolls Royce made of solid gold too i bet ...

:rolleyes:
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are you stalking me? :rolleyes:

seriously though, its not about the size of yoru d!ck or your bank account.

id still be an arrogant and stuck up bastard if i was 5'0, fat and poor.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hey c'mon guys!!!
whats the whining all about?

We need to help these poor guys in whatever way we can.

The reason I came here in this site in the first place is to exchange information and ideas. To get some knowledge to improve my game.

And along the way, help some other guys too. It's good for the Karma, ya know.
 
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I'm here because I enjoy helping the less fortunate.
 
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