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Don Juan
I have an interesting question for all of you out there.
I know many people who have the whole oneitis deal going on. A friend of mine was recently heartbroken after his now ex gf dumped him. They had loved each other and everything, but she said it wasn't going to work out. He is still convinced that she is the one for him and that she will come back and on top of that everything she does he interprets as signs that she will.
So here comes the questions, now I have other friends in similar predicaments except that they're still involved with their S.O. and aren't sure what they should do. They feel compelled to stay with them as a means of committment and what have you. So what causes people to develop this oneitis syndrome? And better yet, when someone feels like they almost HAVE to stay with someone JUST because they want to stick it out and not just dump them, is that love? or what is that?
I know many people who have the whole oneitis deal going on. A friend of mine was recently heartbroken after his now ex gf dumped him. They had loved each other and everything, but she said it wasn't going to work out. He is still convinced that she is the one for him and that she will come back and on top of that everything she does he interprets as signs that she will.
So here comes the questions, now I have other friends in similar predicaments except that they're still involved with their S.O. and aren't sure what they should do. They feel compelled to stay with them as a means of committment and what have you. So what causes people to develop this oneitis syndrome? And better yet, when someone feels like they almost HAVE to stay with someone JUST because they want to stick it out and not just dump them, is that love? or what is that?