Why do people bail when they here "BF"

[Flabbergasped?]

Could someone give me a serious answer to this question? I've never ejected once boyfriend came up, and in every situation it's turned out positive. If a chick has a boyfriend, just proceed as usual until the boyfriend shows up. Then lay off and just be friendlier than flirtateous. If the boyfriend is a tool/loser (which happens a lot with HBs, they often settle if it's on the rebound, etc.), she won't have any problem dumping/cheating, and if he's not a tool and actually has game, it's one more connection you can make. If he's a bouncer, just don't hit on her. Talk to him more, the way you would talk with a male friend. It excludes the girl, which is good for DHV, and get you a new friend.

So, please, DJs, stop running at the sound of those two syllables. You're probably just missing out on good opportunities because of it.

Edit: Obvious typo in the title.

 

[KoalaKing]

If its a bouncer take him on, if you can learn how to fight properly it is actually easier to take the bigger guys out, than the smaller ones, because in their minds they think that they will be able to beat you easily, which gives you a huge advantage if you can fight and attack very quickly.

 

[Docs]

Man, it's awesome when I can walk into my favorite club and not get IDed, and I can ask what's up?

Just gives that air of yeah!

 

[In2theGame]

Could someone give me a serious answer to this question? I've never ejected once boyfriend came up, and in every situation it's turned out positive. If a chick has a boyfriend, just proceed as usual until the boyfriend shows up. Then lay off and just be friendlier than flirtateous. If the boyfriend is a tool/loser (which happens a lot with HBs, they often settle if it's on the rebound, etc.), she won't have any problem dumping/cheating, and if he's not a tool and actually has game, it's one more connection you can make. If he's a bouncer, just don't hit on her. Talk to him more, the way you would talk with a male friend. It excludes the girl, which is good for DHV, and get you a new friend.

So, please, DJs, stop running at the sound of those two syllables. You're probably just missing out on good opportunities because of it.

Edit: Obvious typo in the title.

I believe a guy should leave if he hears "boyfriend". I have swept girls with Boyfriends, even some girl that was engaged.. i had her cheating on him and paying no attention to him.. Come to think about it... Her Fiance has called her cellphone and she'd pick up while im fingering her. AT THE TIME...... it was all good for me BUT........ Now i think if it was me on the other end of the stick... my G/F/fiance getting fingered while she told me she loved me and missed me. Point being.... Just dont go for girls who are in relationships because if anything... they will end up blaming you for "Messing things up" dropping the load on you. One day you will have a serious G/F and wouldnt want some guy pushing the issue when she told him she had a B/F(you). There are different situations....... if your hitting on a girl who has a boyfriend and he comes by, you better hope hes not some 6' 5 muscled up dude cuz then you'd be F*cked. (ive seen it happen). Secondly,....If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend and then sorta waits for you to leave.. then leave. She has a B/F and thats it. Third,... If she says she has a boyfriend BUT keeps flirting with you, then probably she's looking to cheat. Last,..... A girl who wants you to flirt and get sexual.. she wont even bring up a Boyfriend to you.

 

[DonRaul]

I agree that you don't have to run away but when a girl has a BF things get complicated very fast.

First the guy will eventually find out. She will either tell him when they break up because of you or he will spy on her since she is acting different. He might harass you, try to hurt you, or even call you crying his tears out but who cares right you're banging his girl since he was not capable to keep a hold on her. But wait there's more...

Even if she breaks up with the guy there is a high chance she will see him again. The emotions are still there. Then the tables turn and since now the ex just wants to hurt both of you so he will just use her (meaning bang her - for those younger members) and might rub it in your face.

Then you have the Yo Yo girls. Which will say they love you one day and then tell you they cannot leave their 1-4 year relationship. Again the tables turn and she's the one in control.

Of course a true Don Juan doesn't sweat it. He gets the girl no matter what right? But he also has to be unemotional (we humans have a hard time with that) because it might be you getting hurt in the long run.

I wouldn't recommend girls with BF to the rookie DJs but to those who have their game at a good level, nothing should be an obstacle really.

 

[ValleyDJing]

Could someone give me a serious answer to this question?

Because I'm not a d.ick and I'm not down for stealing girlfriends. Thats how you get your ass kicked or killed depending who you f.uck with.

Basically, there's plenty of single women out there.

 

[Flabbergasped?]

Don't misunderstand me, I'll keep going for girls with boyfriends. I just never understood the logic behind stopping all relations, sexual or otherwise. If a girl has a bf and is intent of sticking with him, I just use her to bone her friends. If that's not an option, it at least gives you an interesting conversation.

I've seen and know a lot of dudes who hear BF, excuse themselves, and eject, stop talking to the girl, etc. If she says BF, I give a C&F response and proceed as if nothing happened. It's not like they will behave differently the second they mentioned the word. If the IOI weren't there or things aren't clicking, whether she mentions her boyfriend or her terminal cancer isn't going to change the fact that they exist. And if she is giving IOIs, then brings the boyfriend up, it just means it never bothered her to start with, because she knew she had a boyfriend coming into this situation.

Also, don't forget that a lot of girls use the BF thing as a test or an excuse to make him go away. One line I like to use:

HB: "I have a boyfriend"
Me: "Keep him away from me then, I don't want to turn ur bf gay over me.