“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why do non-white guys chase after meh/10 white women

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Today at the gym, there's this gorgeous Indian or Pakistani girl working out and she decides to do the bend over exercises in front of me while I work out. I automatically assume she has a boyfriend and what the guy looks like. Drum Roll, I was correct because her boyfriend was just at the other corner of the gym. He was a tall, but lanky looking Indian or Pakistani guy that was definitely pulling above his league. Now, if this guy would've gone for a white woman, there's no way in fvcking hell he would pull a similar caliber woman to his current gf.

As I drive home, I am listening to some dating red pill video, and it is obviously a brown guy complaining about struggling with women and you can tell he is only shooting for white females. I feel like this is the majority of non incel guys struggling with women at the end of the day. They have a decent job, they workout, and have the looks to attract a woman, but they over here chasing after Beckies lol. I can understand African American guys doing this, but for the other brown guys including African men, why? Where I am at, I see a lot of beta/fat Indian and Hispanic men with hot women, so why are you choosing to chase after meh/10 Becky's over them?

As an African American male, myself, I was born in a 99% white environment where I basically had no choice, but to pursue white women. After I left my hometown to a major city, I outright refuse to date one unless they are Non-American because Latinas, Indians, and Asians are so much better.
White folks are considered the most attractive of humans, hence JBW is a meme. Similarly, Nordic Whites are considered the most attractive of Whites, hence blond hair and blue eyes are a meme, the latter for quite some time.


As a White man myself, I don't find women of other races to be attractive, although an Asian-ish chick would be OK. But for someone who finds women of color attractive - regardless of his own color - it would makes sense to go for an otherwise higher-tier woman of color.

Something to think about - the women of color that are considered attractive tend to have a decent admixture of White.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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To Asian men, white women are attractive and exotic, the additional factor contributing to that is they are exposed to them less and their own cultures promote the physical features that white women possess.
There is also the Anime meme that makes Whitish Asian chicks more desirable.
 

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Here in Cyprus Pakistanish guys are considered incels and a Cypriot woman would never date any Pakistanish males.

Most Pakistans are working for delivery services all over Cyprus there is this mentality that if you as a Cypriot woman date a Pakistanish Male you are placed in the lowest bracket you could possibly be.

This is racism yes in essence but this is the world we live in now.

If that dude was tall, six pack and looked like Brad-Pitt Pakistan version i tell you now that most majority of women even white would date or at least bang that guy.

Is the perception developed in our century and there is nothing we can do about it.
It's OVER for CyprusPakistaniCels.
 

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Secondly, these cultures, specifically Pakistani and Indian, which you mention in your post have a culture that worships fair skin even within their country. They have ads for fairness creams on TV over there advertised by biggest Bollywood stars.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Side note here:

I do not consider women who are not naturally blonde, that dye their hair blonde to be a blonde.

Likewise with a redhead.

If described by hair color "I date blondes" the grille needs to match.

It's like saying I wear a Rolex, no you don't it's a chinese knock-off. (provided you care about her actually being a blonde or not).

Thoughts?
 
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And while I prefer brunettes, if she’s a natural blonde a nicely maintained blonde cooch can be a crazy turn on, same with fire crotches…
 

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Side note here:

I do not consider women who are not naturally blonde, that dye their hair blonde to be a blonde.

Likewise with a redhead.

If described by hair color "I date blondes" the grille needs to match.

It's like saying I wear a Rolex, no you don't it's a chinese knock-off. (provided you care about her actually being a blonde or not).

Thoughts?
My understanding is that anyone that dyes her hair is more pliable since she has the insecurity in dying the hair in the first place.
 

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The Asians I’ve been with all were bare. Except the Japanese one who had the lightest, softest, daintiest little fuzz - omg it was so sexy. She said she’d never shaved, just trimmed a little when it got past her lips, but like every 6 months.

One time we met and she was bare and I was heartbroken. I asked her why she did it and she said she wanted to see what it felt like unfortunately, it grew back a little coarser as one would expect, but she never did it again and things pretty much return back to the way that they were.


That’s the downside with Asian women. They all hide a very bushy secret. And it’s the cultural norm not to trim it. Which is gross and something which needed negotiation
 

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That’s the downside with Asian women. They all hide a very bushy secret. And it’s the cultural norm not to trim it. Which is gross and something which needed negotiation
What about the Anime style in which the crack is covered up by a bandaid?
 

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The Asians I’ve been with all were bare. Except the Japanese one who had the lightest, softest, daintiest little fuzz - omg it was so sexy. She said she’d never shaved, just trimmed a little when it got past her lips, but like every 6 months.

One time we met and she was bare and I was heartbroken. I asked her why she did it and she said she wanted to see what it felt like unfortunately, it grew back a little coarser as one would expect, but she never did it again and things pretty much return back to the way that they were.
My Asian GF's pubic hair grows straight, and I finally caught a glimpse of it one time after I had gotten back from a work trip.
 
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