"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why do men like thinner girls than fat ones?

oakraiderz2

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monster squad said:
I pretty much only go for chubby chicks, with big-arsed t1ts. Not messy fatasses, but there needs to be some meat.
Preach it. Big boobies, big asses, not fat, but nice and thick. Theres a fine line between fat and thick, many fat girls like to think theyre thick when theyre as big as a house. Ass and titties!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BlackJackal

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I like my women with curves and Vuluptuous. I dont want some obese woman and I damn sure dont want a woman as skinny as the pumpkin king from the nightmare before christmas.
 

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because thinner chicks have sexy legs, nice stomach and look fit. As opposed to fat legs with stretch marks and stomachs that could swallow you whole. However chicks with the right curves and nice sexy thin legs is what most men care for. If you have a pretty face and your skinny not sickly skinny then you may have a chance, but if your fat i just can't do it. Their are some fat chicks who have big ol titties and pretty faces, but the extra weight i just don't want to deal with. I'm slim guy myself and i certainly don't need a fat chick on me. Gah i bet fat chicks pu ssy smells even worst because of all that extra fat and sweat.
 
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speakeasy said:
I think tastes vary from generation to generation as far as weight, but one thing remains a constaint, and that's the right hip to waist ratio. A woman can be large or small, but if she has that .7 hip to waist ratio, I'll think she's sexy as hell.
there was a study confirming that most men prefer it this way. the ratio, I mean.
 

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They gotta have some meat on their bones man, I don't want a skeleton. Definitely need some curves.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why do women like skinny guys ?

I took your question and flopped it. LOL.

Have you been out to the mall lately?
Guys with no chest are the rage. Sometimes I feel like a freak out there, and I'm not even that physically outstanding by any means :whistle:
 

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Master Bates said:
fat typically = unhealthy. It doesn't take societal conditioning to weed out unhealthy people.

Define fat. Lots of other cultures and times have preferred women that we in the modern USA and other western countries would call fat. Morbidly obese and fat are not the same thing.
 

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insidious said:
Why do women like skinny guys?
I ask my younger cousin (16) what the hell she sees in her boyfriend! He's like 5'8" and MIGHT weigh 115 pounds. He's so skinny it creeps me out. I like some guys with some beef on them. Preferably muscle, but a little padding is all right.
 
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