Why do men keep trusting women

[SirFratserlot]

After all the shot they put us through, men will still cling to relationships or marriages

 

[TheException]

Will you shut up already? Every thread you make is a depressing sh1t factory about your life....complaining wont make anything better. You obviously struggle so i cant too harshly yell at you, but for the love of god maybe you could have an attitude change....just maybe. Once your happy living single(happy with yourself), women become positive additions in your life(if you screen and know what you want). If women are the main source of your happiness(i suspect for you they may be) than you will always be disappointed.

 

[SirFratserlot]

Sorry im not an optimist

 

[TheException]

Sorry im not an optimist

Neither am I....Im a realist.

Your hopeless from what i can tell...pathetic and your genes will get weeded out unless you shape up. Its really not as hard/drastic as it seems. PM me if and when you REALLY want to change. Ill see what i can do.

 

[nismo-4]

I used to be an optimist. Now I'm a realist. I don't think positive when I'm with women because when I do, something, and I mean some damn thing just goes wrong. Ironically when I think negative around women, they're less likely to play games. Yes, I've taken a dose of the red pill, and you should too.

Here's your answer from my courtroom files. Thanks to cordoncordon.

Women in general have a much easier time moving on from any relationship than men do. I have noticed this since I was a child. Almost every male friend and family member I have ever had has gone through some pretty serious break up depression after a relationship ends, whereas the women just seem to move right on with no problem. I think I have only seen one time where a woman was truly upset by a break up. Now, maybe they can hide it a little better too, who knows, but I think they just are able to cope better. Considering what kind of attention they get on Facebook and other sites, they really can.

And I believe this happens for 3 reasons.

1. Men tend to hang onto a relationship no matter how bad it gets. Very rarely will you see them doing the breaking up. They would rather stay with someone and be miserable than be single again. They will also be more willing to try and break up, get back together again, and on and on and on. They don't want to let go. Whereas a woman will also hang in there to a degree, but they are much more assertive in deciding that once they make that decision to break up, that's it. They are done. They are more cold, emotionless, and calculating when it comes to ending things once and for all. Does Taylor Swift’s song “We are never ever getting back together again” hold any meaning for you?

2. Evolution. Through history the male of the animal species has been the dominant animal. They herd the females together and in many species only one male will breed to multiple females. And they are VERY protective of their group of females. If another male tried to mate with one, all hell breaks loose. So due to that, it is my belief that losing a female is a severe blow to the male ego due to this evolutionary history. They do not know how to cope and in a sense they are losing part of their identity when a females leaves.

3. Finally, and most obvious, let’s face it, it is 100 times easier for the average female to have a 100 guys knocking on her door right after a break up who are willing to take her out, be in a relationship, and to sex her. All she pretty much has to do is make it know she is available and the males will be all over her. And the female knows this, so it gives her a sense of calm when it comes to breakups, knowing she will have no end to the male suitors wanting to get with her. For the male on the other hand? It is not nearly that easy. There is a ton of competition out there and females are not nearly so quick to just hop in bed with you like a male would.

Here’s something from Deep Dish that may or may not be obvious to you.

1. Women almost always initiate divorce,
2. In relationships, women go through the stages of grievance before dumping you, turn cold as ice as if they never knew you,
3. Briffault's Law is what happens when hypergamy sinks underwater,
4. Women have options and options = prosperity = instability,

They also throw out mixed emotions when they got another man. When they do, the guy’s divorce or breakup will eventually come. It’s a ticking time bomb.

Case closed.

 

[Zarky]

Generalizing about men and women will lead to sadness.

 

[VikingKing]

After all the shot they put us through, men will still cling to relationships or marriages

Because you want to trust them, some high quality ones you can. Its about how much you care, if you care to much and dont trust, your gonna go afc, if you care to much and trust, your gonna go afc. You have to care a little, but its about keeping a balance, which is something ive lacked for a long time. Balance is key, and be careful, dont just hand trust out, it must be earned.

 

[Demonicale]

I don't trust any women, that's me being honest and as open as i'll be.
With this it's not being negative, it's meaning that i can see **** flung at me a mile off.

It's made me better with women, and i don't take their crap anymore.Nothing negative about it, it's just being REAL.

Of course their are cool women out their, but trust is something that's earned rather than just expected.

 

[switch]

After all the shot they put us through, men will still cling to relationships or marriages

because of that little crack in between their legs

 

[Darkwolf32]

because of that little crack in between their legs

Which one?

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

I used to be an optimist. Now I'm a realist. I don't think positive when I'm with women because when I do, something, and I mean some damn thing just goes wrong. Ironically when I think negative around women, they're less likely to play games. Yes, I've taken a dose of the red pill, and you should too.

Here's your answer from my courtroom files. Thanks to cordoncordon.

Women in general have a much easier time moving on from any relationship than men do. I have noticed this since I was a child. Almost every male friend and family member I have ever had has gone through some pretty serious break up depression after a relationship ends, whereas the women just seem to move right on with no problem. I think I have only seen one time where a woman was truly upset by a break up. Now, maybe they can hide it a little better too, who knows, but I think they just are able to cope better. Considering what kind of attention they get on Facebook and other sites, they really can.

And I believe this happens for 3 reasons.

1. Men tend to hang onto a relationship no matter how bad it gets. Very rarely will you see them doing the breaking up. They would rather stay with someone and be miserable than be single again. They will also be more willing to try and break up, get back together again, and on and on and on. They don't want to let go. Whereas a woman will also hang in there to a degree, but they are much more assertive in deciding that once they make that decision to break up, that's it. They are done. They are more cold, emotionless, and calculating when it comes to ending things once and for all. Does Taylor Swift’s song “We are never ever getting back together again” hold any meaning for you?

2. Evolution. Through history the male of the animal species has been the dominant animal. They herd the females together and in many species only one male will breed to multiple females. And they are VERY protective of their group of females. If another male tried to mate with one, all hell breaks loose. So due to that, it is my belief that losing a female is a severe blow to the male ego due to this evolutionary history. They do not know how to cope and in a sense they are losing part of their identity when a females leaves.

3. Finally, and most obvious, let’s face it, it is 100 times easier for the average female to have a 100 guys knocking on her door right after a break up who are willing to take her out, be in a relationship, and to sex her. All she pretty much has to do is make it know she is available and the males will be all over her. And the female knows this, so it gives her a sense of calm when it comes to breakups, knowing she will have no end to the male suitors wanting to get with her. For the male on the other hand? It is not nearly that easy. There is a ton of competition out there and females are not nearly so quick to just hop in bed with you like a male would.

Here’s something from Deep Dish that may or may not be obvious to you.

1. Women almost always initiate divorce,
2. In relationships, women go through the stages of grievance before dumping you, turn cold as ice as if they never knew you,
3. Briffault's Law is what happens when hypergamy sinks underwater,
4. Women have options and options = prosperity = instability,

They also throw out mixed emotions when they got another man. When they do, the guy’s divorce or breakup will eventually come. It’s a ticking time bomb.

Case closed.

Concerning your 1st paragraph and your 3rd main point: Modern technology such as cellphones, smartphones, and social network sites just give women the tools to effortlessly move from guy to guy. The game tipped into women's favor big time. The thing is I don't even think there's an answer for it. Especially when girls like Draya Michelle can become famous off of FB and twitter likes/comments alone.

Guys defitnately have to suffer after breakup for longer periods of time than women. If a guy is obese and fat as **** he stands no chance. If he wants anything the girl has to be uglier than a elephants turd. How many whale sized guys do you see in the club? None they know better. Obese whale females can still find a beta provider(who is probably out of her league and could do better, but just doesn't know it) who could be somewhat decent looking. Unlike obese guys, warpig females are in the club when they have no business in there.

 

[Burroughs]

Most men are too blind to see the inherent parasitic nature of women because of man's addiction to sex and 'motherly affection'

add to this the masses of beta faggots and hermaphrodites like Zarky constantly spouting nonsense and disruptive lies and you have men that can never learn

 

[nitsuj]

I don't trust any women, that's me being honest and as open as i'll be.
With this it's not being negative, it's meaning that i can see **** flung at me a mile off.

It's made me better with women, and i don't take their crap anymore.Nothing negative about it, it's just being REAL.

Of course their are cool women out their, but trust is something that's earned rather than just expected.

I like this response. It's no whiteknightish but not overly misogynistic neither