"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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why do i only have trouble with this one??

Sikanhe

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This girl i used to like back in high school i recent met up again i just cant bring myself to to ask on a date.
i never asked her out during high school now 4 years later i dont why i still cant do it. i dont have trouble with any other girls but this one i dont no why...any advices?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's all in your head. You aren't the AFC guy you used to be.
 

Diaforetikos

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You have officially put her on a pedestal. Now your worked has just doubled. Get her down and clear your mind. Try your hardest to treat her like any other girl. You have no excuse but to do what you know you must.

Don't lost back unless it's an update.
 

Sikanhe

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still....why cant i get over this one?
is it only cuz i cant let it go?
 
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