"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do I keep Giving Girls the Benefit of the doubt...

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mtlwlu

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So this one girl ive been seeing, keeps blowing me off last minute. Its weird because we've gone on dates before and things seem to be going good on those dates. However theres been more than on occasion where shes blown me off last minute (literally like just an hour before we meet up)

Now as I write this she did it again, this time she was in step class (a workout class at the gym) and apparently now shes in the emergency at the hospital because she cant move her knee... like seriously wtf. Should I give her the benefit of the doubt or just move on.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It depends on how she blows you off. I doubt this girl fvcked up her knee on purpose so she could blow you off. However, if she blew you off for no apparant reason in the past, I'd give her a final warning or notice.

However, you can give her such a notice after this. She's injured, and you could show your 'sensitive' side to go over to her place on a visit. Perhaps you can make out at her place? Rules can and should be bend to specific situations. If she blows you off next time for no apparant reason or a bullsh!t reason, give her a notice that you don't work that way.
 
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man i dont know sounds fishy... thats kinda a lame excuse but it could be true...
 
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thats the problem, is it a legit reason or a lame excuse. I have no idea.
 
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forget givin her a warning go on bout your business. you got more important stuff to do then worry bout her anyway. if shes blowin you off its her loss on missin out on havin a good time with a great guy. i think one of the pook lessons i was reading over the weekend said to judge by their actions and not their words.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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