"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do I keep Giving Girls the Benefit of the doubt...

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So this one girl ive been seeing, keeps blowing me off last minute. Its weird because we've gone on dates before and things seem to be going good on those dates. However theres been more than on occasion where shes blown me off last minute (literally like just an hour before we meet up)

Now as I write this she did it again, this time she was in step class (a workout class at the gym) and apparently now shes in the emergency at the hospital because she cant move her knee... like seriously wtf. Should I give her the benefit of the doubt or just move on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It depends on how she blows you off. I doubt this girl fvcked up her knee on purpose so she could blow you off. However, if she blew you off for no apparant reason in the past, I'd give her a final warning or notice.

However, you can give her such a notice after this. She's injured, and you could show your 'sensitive' side to go over to her place on a visit. Perhaps you can make out at her place? Rules can and should be bend to specific situations. If she blows you off next time for no apparant reason or a bullsh!t reason, give her a notice that you don't work that way.
 
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man i dont know sounds fishy... thats kinda a lame excuse but it could be true...
 
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thats the problem, is it a legit reason or a lame excuse. I have no idea.
 
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forget givin her a warning go on bout your business. you got more important stuff to do then worry bout her anyway. if shes blowin you off its her loss on missin out on havin a good time with a great guy. i think one of the pook lessons i was reading over the weekend said to judge by their actions and not their words.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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