I'm working hard to improve all aspects of my life and I've read the DJ Bible too. I've made my thinking much more positive and talking to women is now much easier now that my anxiety levels are down. But, I get rejected so much and I hate it because it makes no sense to put the work in, believe in yourself, and then not get laid because of it.
I honestly believe I should've banged a few girls this year, but for one reason or another, I get rejected by them just not replying back or flaking. I don't think it's fair and I deserve better. Plus, I live in a rural area, so it's hard enough finding single women here anyways, which means I'm wading through so many taken women just to find a single woman. So, I'd like to find out what I'm doing wrong, as I've always had problems with women, but I try hard and I barely get results, just rejection. The thing is I believe I can get with these cute women, have no idea why it's not happening, as I'm awesome anyways.
So what is making these women reject me? I'm 5'9, 210(I'm not fat, muscular, but I'm working on losing a little weight). I want to just bang a lot of girls and not have serious relationships. No need for a girlfriend. I'm 24. I'm not afraid to cold approach, but I don't need to hit on every woman here. Attraction has always been tough for me.
That said, I would like help on changing this around. Life's too short to be a success in everything but women. I want it all.
Edit: Figured this might give some insight. At one of my jobs, a couple of the girls there think they can push me over and get their way with me. As a result, I'm fighting with them on a consistent basis, calling them out on their bs(which they don't believe), and I get mad over it. I've recently started standing up for myself(past few months), confronting people over them not treating me right, and taking up for myself. So, that may take some time for people to associate that with my personality as I used to be such an easy going, laid back person. Which I still am, but there are lines that get crossed.
I honestly believe I should've banged a few girls this year, but for one reason or another, I get rejected by them just not replying back or flaking. I don't think it's fair and I deserve better. Plus, I live in a rural area, so it's hard enough finding single women here anyways, which means I'm wading through so many taken women just to find a single woman. So, I'd like to find out what I'm doing wrong, as I've always had problems with women, but I try hard and I barely get results, just rejection. The thing is I believe I can get with these cute women, have no idea why it's not happening, as I'm awesome anyways.
So what is making these women reject me? I'm 5'9, 210(I'm not fat, muscular, but I'm working on losing a little weight). I want to just bang a lot of girls and not have serious relationships. No need for a girlfriend. I'm 24. I'm not afraid to cold approach, but I don't need to hit on every woman here. Attraction has always been tough for me.
That said, I would like help on changing this around. Life's too short to be a success in everything but women. I want it all.
Edit: Figured this might give some insight. At one of my jobs, a couple of the girls there think they can push me over and get their way with me. As a result, I'm fighting with them on a consistent basis, calling them out on their bs(which they don't believe), and I get mad over it. I've recently started standing up for myself(past few months), confronting people over them not treating me right, and taking up for myself. So, that may take some time for people to associate that with my personality as I used to be such an easy going, laid back person. Which I still am, but there are lines that get crossed.
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