"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why do I feel nervous with 1 chick and not another?

Addvrz

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When i chill with some of my drop dead gorgeous friends I am able to do all the things I learn from swinggcat and MM all of that. But then there are some other hot girls I just can't get coherent words out of my mouth. I thought I read about all the things girls can do to press your buttons.
Is there any belief that I need to learn so that I can get over this?:mad:
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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You are comfortable around those other girls because you know them.

When it comes to a girl that you like.. get to know her. Dont worry about trying to say the best thing. Just treat her like any other hot girl.. accept you want to make a move. So just relax and take the time to listen to her, and get an idea of what she is about, what turns her on, and what she likes.

Just dont turn into her guy friend. If that happens. You are doomed.
 

MiGuelS

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I have the same prob lol but i see a trend with mine some of te gorgeous i know are really small like 5'2-5-4 but girls who are like 5'6-5'9 i get somewhat nervous
 
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