"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
why do guys think large girls are unattractive ?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
MacDiddy
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It's hilarious....
Now, the reality is most guys perceive that mating with a fat chick brings on fat offsprings (despite what the truth may be) ...... Fat children aren't exactly a sign of health.... since obesity leads to many diseases in life...
If the fat chick looses weight like on those jenny craig ads etc... then their perceptions changes....
Most guys are inherently superficial....
Now society thru the mass media has bombarded us with images of what attractive is like.... eg. naomi campbell, nicole (whatshername), all the chicks in present playboy, all the chick in other tasteful gentlemens magazines....
I gotta say, I'm a sucker for the mass media.... I'm just getting with the program!!!
NotaGoatLover
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I would like to fvck some fat girls just for fun....not for a Relationship......
But deep down when some1 sees fat girls subconsciously they think Fat people are lazy......... Since you get fat when your lazy....
Fat=Lazy..... I dunno it's true but It's my Theory....
More cushion for the pushin!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MacDiddy
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If a fat chick in bikinis tried advertising some bikini line wax... do you think even fat chick would buy it let alone the skinny population???
actually those type of chicks have a lot of excess skin, mainly in the stomach area...
probably at that point, the target audience would be fat chicks. But anyways companies use media to make money....it's all thats important.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
damn fvcking straight.Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Fvck no!! I'd be scared of her. I'd throw a twinkie on the ground and say "Dont eat me"!!!!. Then i'd run as fast as i can.
What kind of a stupid thread is this anyways...
What is SS.com coming to!! Look at this shyt!!
There's this 50 year old obese diabetic bush hog at the office where i work....once in awhile she'll come over and kino me....it fvcking freaks the sh!t out of me sometimes.....UGGGHHh god.
PRMoon
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
MacDiddy
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I just find that they are too much meat for me to handle... each to his own I guess...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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