Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do Guys get so Hot over their cars, bikes etc?

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I think men are better drivers. What I mean by "better" is that they seem to have more control of the vehicle. As others have said, men drive faster or more aggressively, resulting in more accidents for men than women.

Driving a car with waaaaaay more power than you need to get from point A to point B is just plain fun; it's a rush. I imagine a motorcycle would be even more of a rush.

Besides that, men just like mechanical things. I don't know why, but it's always been that way for me: when I was little, Lego was my favorite toy, and I always found myself taking stuff like mechanical pencils apart so I could see how they worked.

I'm planning on being a computer programmer. It's really the same thing as Lego, but a lot more dry, with a lot more math, a lot less sleep, and it's a lot more fun!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by ikkenai
Why do girls post on this forum? Seriously
I've asked that and I have'nt had a good answer yet...
 

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<---loves the SUV's and Old School Carz....

from the East Coast to Down South....

no dout cuzz....
 

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Originally posted by ikkenai
Why do girls post on this forum? Seriously
bc they love Don Juans and they cant get enough of us, so they figuered theyd come to a place infested with them and try to get lucky....if only the internet was a real place.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Big Eee Zee

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why do I get hot over my car? Cause when I'm ripping around a blind corner at 2 in the morning at 60 with the rear end coming loose, that gives me an adrenaline rush no girl has been able to match so far.
 

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Originally posted by humiliator
I think men are better drivers. What I mean by "better" is that they seem to have more control of the vehicle. As others have said, men drive faster or more aggressively, resulting in more accidents for men than women.

Driving a car with waaaaaay more power than you need to get from point A to point B is just plain fun; it's a rush. I imagine a motorcycle would be even more of a rush.

Besides that, men just like mechanical things. I don't know why, but it's always been that way for me: when I was little, Lego was my favorite toy, and I always found myself taking stuff like mechanical pencils apart so I could see how they worked.

I'm planning on being a computer programmer. It's really the same thing as Lego, but a lot more dry, with a lot more math, a lot less sleep, and it's a lot more fun!
Dude, maybe you should try being a mechanical engineer? Just a guess, but it sounds like you would enjoy that alot.
 

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Cars and Sports are to men as Handbags and Weddings are to women. Although there are SOME members of the other sex that really understand the gravity and nature behind the passion for them, for the most part these people are few and far between and overall one sex enjoys said subjects on a deeper level.

I know some biker chicks but really the bike community is 90% male, not a matter of opinion, just the way things are.

Originally posted by Black_Italian
I dislike cars and bikes i get hot over my Ninja sword and my Ninja stars.
What about Bikes with ninja swords mounted on them?! Like in kill bill and about a kazillion japanese action movies.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dreamychick,

I think you might have messed this one up. If the guy is thick enough to try to impress you with car talk, it seems likely that if he was interested he would go straight for your panties. :p
 

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Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
why do I get hot over my car? Cause when I'm ripping around a blind corner at 2 in the morning at 60 with the rear end coming loose, that gives me an adrenaline rush no girl has been able to match so far.

So you're the ass in D.C. last night that turned left through an intersection at 50-60, ran up the curb, blew both front tires, and came within (nonexaggeration) 2 feet of hitting me as my girlfriend dove one direction and i sidestepped in the other and then didn't even bother to stop but just drove down the sidewalk and up the street on 2 flats?
 

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Originally posted by DreamyChick


Why do you men assume a women can't drive when stastically speaking you have the most accidents???? And he only spent 5 minutes talking about me. He was so turned on by his new dreams/projects. He was throwing out so many mechanical terms that all I could do was say the occassional sounds cool or unhuh.

Did he forget he was talking to a woman?

Women have more accidents in pure numbers.

Men have the bigger, more serious accidents. We might not crash a lot but when we do we make them count :)



Did he forget he was talking to a woman?
And you as a woman, who are supposed to be the great communicators, couldn't redirect the conversation or at least tell him you have no idea wtf he's talking about?
 

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Re: Re: Why do Guys get so Hot over their cars, bikes etc?

Originally posted by mrRuckus
And you as a woman, who are supposed to be the great communicators, couldn't redirect the conversation or at least tell him you have no idea wtf he's talking about?
Whoa, relax. She already said she likes him, so she's trying to show him she has an interest in what he's interested in. Give her a break.
 

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Originally posted by DreamyChick
Yeah so what does that have to do with my original question?
Read the Triumph ad..you will understand..:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by DreamyChick

Did he forget he was talking to a woman?
did u forget that u were talking to a man...
Do you think we like to hear you women talk about fashion and **** like that, thats why we say uhuh and cool alot when were amoongst you....
oki im gonna put it in a very easy term so that u can understand:

Cars are like shoes for men....

that should make you understand....:p
 

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Re: Re: Why do Guys get so Hot over their cars, bikes etc?

Originally posted by Morphiex
did u forget that u were talking to a man...
Do you think we like to hear you women talk about fashion and **** like that, thats why we say uhuh and cool alot when were amoongst you....
oki im gonna put it in a very easy term so that u can understand:

Cars are like shoes for men....

that should make you understand....:p
Well personally, I am not that crazy about shoe shopping. I only own like 16 pairs but I get what you are saying. He did somewhat impress me by his car talk seeing as how he never looked like the type to work on cars and bikes and generally get greasy, but now I see he doesnt mind getting all sweaty and dirty. In fact the night I was over at his place while he was taking apart his bike, he was covered in sweat and didn't take a shower until the morning. Perhaps he was too busy entertaining me, but there's a tip for you fellas. If you get sweaty/dirty wash up before you invite a girl over to indulge in a heavy make out/sex session. Okay? But for the record I forgive the guy as I kept him up all night playing pool. :)
 

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Re: Re: Re: Why do Guys get so Hot over their cars, bikes etc?

Originally posted by runnincircles
Whoa, relax. She already said she likes him, so she's trying to show him she has an interest in what he's interested in. Give her a break.
Thank you. Yes I am quite infactuated with the boy. So I cut him some slack, but not too much. ;)
 

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By the way, speaking of accidents I witnessed a guy rear ending a girl on the way to work this morning. When I come into town the speed changes from 55 to 45 mph.

Anyway there are two roads on the left that people frequently pull out of so I always adjust my speed bc people are either turning left to get in my lane or about 10 feet down turning left to get on another highway. Well, I figured the guy was gonna pull out in front of me so I let him have plenty of room but at the same time he pulled out a girl was slowing down to turn left on the other road.

Apparently, he had accelerated past 45 mph bc he didnt see her stopped until it was too late. His tires burned rubber on the pavement and they were smoking and he hit her. I have never seen tires smoke like that. I always hear them screech but never do I witness them burn like that. It was pretty interesting. Anyway his front end was smashed. It sucks for both parties involved I am sure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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