Why Do Guys Change For Girls?

[Ease]

Are you kidding me? What a joke...

Any sucessful relationship is built on compromise. Otherwise the girl will be VERY unhappy with your stubborn @$$. It's all give and take.

- comic_relief

Ironic that this guy is saying 'are you kidding me, what a joke', and then follows up with something like that.

The kind of compromises acceptable are like:

Supressing your desires to cheat
Being pleasant to her parents
Being understanding of her fears of kinky sex

If you come on her and say that a man should compromise his addiction to gambling or smoking to please her, then you have never been in a happy relationship.

The compromise scale is 4:1, she will naturally put in 4 times as much effort to please you and obey your whims. She will compromise it without you even having to ask, if you are doing your job right.

 

[comic_relief]

Ironic that this guy is saying 'are you kidding me, what a joke', and then follows up with something like that.

The kind of compromises acceptable are like:

Supressing your desires to cheat
Being pleasant to her parents
Being understanding of her fears of kinky sex

If you come on her and say that a man should compromise his addiction to gambling or smoking to please her, then you have never been in a happy relationship.

The compromise scale is 4:1, she will naturally put in 4 times as much effort to please you and obey your whims. She will compromise it without you even having to ask, if you are doing your job right.

Examples of acceptable compromises:
- Suppressing desire to cheat
- being pleasant to her parents
- being understanding of her fears of kinky sex
- agreeing to spend some time with her instead of your friends (SOME)
- agreeing to drive her to work when I should be sleeping because her brakes went out and can't get to work

Some amount of sovereignty must be given up to get into a relationship. Anyone that disagrees with that statement can discuss the statement with me.

Personally I believe a little conflict in a relationship is important and helps control the relationship.

- comic_relief

 

[Alien]

You're forgetting the fact that he hasn't actually stopped smoking.

Lying to your girl is manly.

Of course the obvious thing to do in this case is to say 'i can smoke if i want to, ho', but it's not as bad as actually stopping smoking.

When my girl asks me if i got involved with any girls last night, i tell her no- i didn't. This may be a lie, but in this case saying 'i make out with girls behind your back, ho' is no good.

Sometimes the true nature of being a man is less obvious.

WTF? Are you on drugs or what?

Why would be lying manly?
If she ask you that if you got involved with any girls last night you could say:

-Yes. ...with your mother.

-Yes. ...with your father.

-I will tell you next year.

-Yes. There was a pretty blonde ...i ****ed out the sh!t of her.

-Guess...

etc.

That is not a "How did you sleep, darling?" question ...it is a strong agressive manipulation(So your answer can be agressive too).
How come you dont see it??