"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why do grown women talk like teenagers?

picard

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why do grown women talk like teenagers?

I heard women used the word "like" in a conversation at least a dozen times.

for example, they said "you couldn't believe he was like hot" .

" I was like so mad with her messing with my boyfriend"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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American women are immature. A 40 year old American women is less mature than most 16 year old girls on this planet. Hey, old women are cool and sexy in American culture. No reason for them to ever grow up. You will be changing diapers, cleaning the house, and supporting your 40 year old wives as they cheat on you with younger guys. God Bless the USA!
 

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Main stream music these days proclaim a message that you don't have to grow up and your not old enough to be responsible. Look at some rap artists, lil jon and the eastside boys, lil wayne, lil kim. Why would they put the lil in front of there name?

Lets look at kanye's, the game and lil wayne's albums covers. lil wayne and the game have themselves as babies on the front cover but with tattoos and jewerly. Kanyes album has a teddy bear in college several times, what is the message?

Since most kids and teenagers are the main audience they identify with these artists and live a life that resembles them, and will believe any message the artist says in the music. To pursue crime, immorality and to submit to the elite and worship them.
 

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BigJimbo said:
American women are immature. A 40 year old American women is less mature than most 16 year old girls on this planet. Hey, old women are cool and sexy in American culture. No reason for them to ever grow up. You will be changing diapers, cleaning the house, and supporting your 40 year old wives as they cheat on you with younger guys. God Bless the USA!
Picard lives in Canada...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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