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Why do girls never introduce their bfs?

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First off: I'm not entering these situations romantically. I just meet these girls, and then all of a sudden we decide to meet for food or whatever, and anytime there's a boyfriend they never introduce him. I strongly don't want to get into a relationship, and I get sex from other women who don't have a bf.

Anyways, so tonight, I went over to this girl's place because we were going to have dinner and talk, and she offered to cook dinner, so we didn't have to buy food.

I brought over wine, and we sat and talked about going to France together this December. There were like 10 or so people in there; she introduces everyone, even people she'd known for 30 minutes, and then about 10-15 minutes later this guy comes out of her room (apparently, he was sleeping). He plops down right in front of her on the coffee table (we were both sititng on the couch). She continues on not even talking to him or introducing him.

This is the 4th time straight; where girls just don't introduce their bfs. They'll introduce EVERYONE else, but they won't name, talk, or title the person who awkwardly sits in front of them staring.

The last time: a girl told me she had a boyfriend 4 months after we'd gone to the movies, shot pool, went out to eat. I was like oh, okay. I thought he was her cousin or something.

It's strange but slightly humorous. Why do women do this?
 

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If you're a man you introduce yourself. Don't wait for some b1tch to do it for you. Take charge.
 

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Swashbuckler said:
The last time: a girl told me she had a boyfriend 4 months after we'd gone to the movies, shot pool, went out to eat. I was like oh, okay. I thought he was her cousin or something.

It's strange but slightly humorous. Why do women do this?
4 months of all that and you never banged her? Well, that's probably why she didn't feel she needed to bring it up. She had her orbiter buddy to have fun with while she goes home to bf to get her brains f*cked out. From her perspective why shake up the status quo? It's not like you were trying to have sex with her or something, right?
 

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Nutz said:
4 months of all that and you never banged her? Well, that's probably why she didn't feel she needed to bring it up. She had her orbiter buddy to have fun with while she goes home to bf to get her brains f*cked out. From her perspective why shake up the status quo? It's not like you were trying to have sex with her or something, right?
She was a virgin, and I was having sex with other women who didn't have boyfriends. She was just a friend. I liked chilling with her, and I knew she wasn't going to put out, so why would I bother trying to get with her.

She asked me if I wanted to get an apartment with her. That's when she told me she had a boyfriend, but she followed it up with "I don't like calling him my boyfriend. I'm very independent."

Last night, I asked this girl who won't move on from me. She'll text me continuously even if I don't respond. Anyways, she's mad cute. I asked her.

She said it happens for two reasons:
1. The girl knows you like her, and she doesn't want to break your heart.
2. The girl likes you and doesn't want to disqualify herself from being your target.

I stopped texting her after that haha, and then she sent me 5 more texts wondering where I went.
 

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Swashbuckler said:
She was a virgin, and I was having sex with other women who didn't have boyfriends. She was just a friend. I liked chilling with her, and I knew she wasn't going to put out, so why would I bother trying to get with her.

She asked me if I wanted to get an apartment with her. That's when she told me she had a boyfriend, but she followed it up with "I don't like calling him my boyfriend. I'm very independent."

Last night, I asked this girl who won't move on from me. She'll text me continuously even if I don't respond. Anyways, she's mad cute. I asked her.

She said it happens for two reasons:
1. The girl knows you like her, and she doesn't want to break your heart.
2. The girl likes you and doesn't want to disqualify herself from being your target.

I stopped texting her after that haha, and then she sent me 5 more texts wondering where I went.
You didn't go after a virgin because you thought she wouldn't put out? LOL.

My PUA buddy has banged two virgins this year from club pulls, one in the back of his car and the other in the bushes by the side of the road. He just lost his v-card back in Feb 09, so don't tell me virgins don't put out. He pulled 2 of them for ONS!



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Can't post for 24 hours so I'll answer the below question here. My friend is 21, and another is 26, and another still is 29 (about to be 30). All of them have banged virgins, repeatedly, off of club pulls and ONS situations. I've done it in the past once or twice as well before joining the community.
 
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