"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do girls get freaked so fast?

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skip2mylou781 said:
do you speak from ANY experience? or are you all philosophy and theory??

there ARE tricks to gain interest, so if you do use these tricks, be prepared to play mind games.

Francisco seriously wtf you talking out of your ass for???

theres tricks such as

a)making her jealous
b)push/pull
c)make her see you with another girl

there are SO MANY little games you can play with a b1tch to get into her head and make you want you more, i say this from experience because I have done that before

have you Cisco?????
The Tao of Skippy: Zen master living through dreams and subterfuge for those unable to live an authentic life. Keep playing the games that women play, it definitely suites you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, listen up. A common shyt-test is the argument over nothing. The woman wants to know that the man isn't some gullible, easily-manipulated putz so she takes fake offense at something the man says or does, his past, anything, and tries to get him to apologize over nothing.

Fall into this trap and you will lose her respect. Listen to what she says and judge for yourself how bad it was - and apologize an appropriate amount, if at all. She really would rather you'd defend yourself (or better, turn it back on her for her needless drama) but she won't tell you that.
 

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Skip is the only guy on this site that gets girls Fran for the exact reasons you think he doesn't.

This site has really fvcked up people to think that intellectual honorble mature guys get laid, they don't for the very reasons they are intellectual and honorable.

The guys that come on here and seem a little dumb are probally the ones banging the most chicks because they never stop and think about it they just have fun and do.
 

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As suggested to me by Ace of Flames, I don't appologize for nobody unless I really fvck up. . . Appologizing and sorriness are submissive behaviours.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
The Tao of Skippy: Zen master living through dreams and subterfuge for those unable to live an authentic life. Keep playing the games that women play, it definitely suites you.

and you keep being the highly intellectual prick that speaks from theory and philosophy who is absolutely terrified to ever look a hot girl in the eyes and say "hey baby"

wow your women with your nerdiness old man
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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skip2mylou781 said:
do you speak from ANY experience? or are you all philosophy and theory??

there ARE tricks to gain interest, so if you do use these tricks, be prepared to play mind games.

Francisco seriously wtf you talking out of your ass for???

theres tricks such as

a)making her jealous
b)push/pull
c)make her see you with another girl

there are SO MANY little games you can play with a b1tch to get into her head and make you want you more, i say this from experience because I have done that before

have you Cisco?????
The thing is she wont speak to me, she ignored my emails, texts, and myspace comment. And then finally said she wont change her mind and i should move on cuz she has. She sounded kinda nasty in her email too. So theres pretty much no way to make her jealous other than if she sees im datin anohter girl on myspace, and thats if she hasnt deleted my myspace. Im surprised she hasnt deleted it yet, she bumped me outta her top 8 but hasnt delted me and she goes on every single day so i dunno if she just forgot or what. She left all my funny comments from when she liked me, i cant figure that out either. I dunno i really like this girl, im still gonna go out wiht other girls dont get me wrong, but im not givin up on her, itll be my backburner, cuz i know i aint gonna like any of the girls as much. Least i dont think so. I been in the dating game for years and this one was my fav so far.

Do u think time could heal it a bit? Maybe if i wait a month or 2 then try emailing her or callin her? Of course she might be in an ltr with that other guy by then, but do u think thats possible? Could time make her forget how much she thinks im an a$$hole and freak?
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
do you speak from ANY experience? or are you all philosophy and theory??

there ARE tricks to gain interest, so if you do use these tricks, be prepared to play mind games.

Francisco seriously wtf you talking out of your ass for???

theres tricks such as

a)making her jealous
b)push/pull
c)make her see you with another girl

there are SO MANY little games you can play with a b1tch to get into her head and make you want you more, i say this from experience because I have done that before

have you Cisco?????
The thing is she wont speak to me, she ignored my emails, texts, and myspace comment. And then finally said she wont change her mind and i should move on cuz she has. She sounded kinda nasty in her email too. So theres pretty much no way to make her jealous other than if she sees im datin anohter girl on myspace, and thats if she hasnt deleted my myspace. Im surprised she hasnt deleted it yet, she bumped me outta her top 8 but hasnt delted me and she goes on every single day so i dunno if she just forgot or what. She left all my funny comments from when she liked me, i cant figure that out either. I dunno i really like this girl, im still gonna go out wiht other girls dont get me wrong, but im not givin up on her, itll be my backburner, cuz i know i aint gonna like any of the girls as much. Least i dont think so. I been in the dating game for years and this one was my fav so far.

Do u think time could heal it a bit? Maybe if i wait a month or 2 then try emailing her or callin her? Of course she might be in an ltr with that other guy by then, but do u think thats possible? Could time make her forget how much she thinks im an a$$hole and freak?
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
r. Theyre r plenty of weirdos and stalkers out there, but theoirs also guys who

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You are a weirdo. You don't see it, but you are.

But it's ok. The first step to recovery is recognizing you need to recover.
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
Do u think time could heal it a bit? Maybe if i wait a month or 2 then try emailing her or callin her? Of course she might be in an ltr with that other guy by then, but do u think thats possible? Could time make her forget how much she thinks im an a$$hole and freak?
I think you're realizing where you went wrong with overwhelming her. What Skippy The Great failed to understand that his tricks don't account for your situation where the woman has 0% interest for now (you think he'd give a better suggestion since he's well experienced with women having 0% interest).

Your best bet it move this one to the bottom of your list for the time being and continue to work on yourself. Sarge a few more women and don't overwhelm yourself that this one may date someone else during this time. If you can better yourself, you'll be able to show a bit more value compared to the possible AFC's she had been dating.
 

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oh look!!!! the FAGG0T unorthodox GOT BANNED!!!! WOW JUST LIKE I THOUGHT

****IN dreamxhenry trying to come back and be a ****ing little *****

I am ALWAYS RIGHT about trolls, ALWAYS

**** YOU ALL
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJinTraining06 said:
Im surprised she hasnt deleted it yet, she bumped me outta her top 8 but hasnt delted me and she goes on every single day so i dunno if she just forgot or what. She left all my funny comments from when she liked me, i cant figure that out either.

I'm sorry but i think you're reading too much into this, i think you're grasping at straws because you want her and can't have her. She's probably had a thing for this guy all these years, and he finally made a move.
 

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and you keep being the highly intellectual prick that speaks from theory and philosophy who is absolutely terrified to ever look a hot girl in the eyes and say "hey baby"

wow your women with your nerdiness old man
Hey, Skippy. Thought you had forgotten about me. Glad that I can keep your attention. How's that self esteem training been working out for 'ya?
 

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oh look!!!! the FAGG0T unorthodox GOT BANNED!!!! WOW JUST LIKE I THOUGHT

****IN dreamxhenry trying to come back and be a ****ing little *****

I am ALWAYS RIGHT about trolls, ALWAYS

**** YOU ALL
Damn Skippy, how many guys are you stalking online, I thought that I was your favorite nemesis?
 

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DevanE said:
Hey Skip let me ask you...WHAT else do you do BESIDES fukin women...? What responsibilities or hobbies do you have....? Do you go to school...? Work...? Just curious.

gym, basketball, i work 40 hours a week (i dunno if thats "for fun" tho lol), go out with friends.......no real big time responsibilities or anything
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Damn Skippy, how many guys are you stalking online, I thought that I was your favorite nemesis?

i dont stalk anyone online, i get really pissed tho when a good solid forum like this one is overrun by ****ing dreamxhenry that gay little troll, and i CAN TELL when hes back and i point it out, but its too bad no one else ever notices..........."unorthodox" had some really fruity looking pointless threads going, and never got flamed once, and I CANT BELIEVE THAT
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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skip2mylou781 said:
i dont stalk anyone online, i get really pissed tho when a good solid forum like this one is overrun by ****ing dreamxhenry that gay little troll, and i CAN TELL when hes back and i point it out, but its too bad no one else ever notices..........."unorthodox" had some really fruity looking pointless threads going, and never got flamed once, and I CANT BELIEVE THAT
If you ever grow up just a tad and look back on your posts, you're going to be embarrassed.
 
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