"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do girls feed us this tripe....

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At the end of a break-up, when a chic dumps you and says,

Listen, you are a wonderful person. You are caring, and good looking and you will find someone who will make you happy. You are a great person with amazing qualities. You are everything a girl could want.

Well if thats the case...WhyTF are we breaking up for???? What's so great about me....that YOU don't want me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's trying to break up without hurting your feelings cos if she does that then she in turn hurts herself cos she'll feel like a ***** and that is her primacy concern. Not feeling like a *****. Girls will say all sorts of **** to stop themselves from feeling like a *****.
 

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Man i hate the asterisks on this b1tchin forum...
 

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Ripper said:
Man i hate the asterisks on this b1tchin forum...
So buy a thesaurus.

Anyway, OP, what difference does it make to you what she says after you're broken up? Why do you even read emails or texts or talk to her in person at all? You shouldn't even be communicating with her at this point, much less giving a damn about what she has to say.
 

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Well if thats the case...WhyTF are we breaking up for???? What's so great about me....that YOU don't want me?
I'll let you answer this for me. Why DOESN'T she WANT YOU?
















Time's Up. It's real simple.

She
Is
NOT
Attracted
To
YOU.

Like a smoking hot gun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You know when I break up with someone, I usually make some excuse up, because the truth can make her cry, which is embarrassing when there's other people around.

I thought everyone does it?
 

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Pakwah said:
At the end of a break-up, when a chic dumps you and says,

Listen, you are a wonderful person. You are caring, and good looking and you will find someone who will make you happy. You are a great person with amazing qualities. You are everything a girl could want.

Well if thats the case...WhyTF are we breaking up for???? What's so great about me....that YOU don't want me?
Find the hottest single friend or sister she has and say "Glad you feel that way.. You wouldnt have any problem hooking me up with FRIEND/SISTER then would you?".

I almost hooked up with my x-wifes best friend after my divorce which started from a comment similar to that. Then a very torked off look from the X and "are you serious".. ..yeah.. Then went to me talking to the friend on my own without blessing.. Then went to the friend and I bashing the X about why she divorced me. Then went as far as a kiss with the friend and then her saying "Damn I would really love to continue this but she's been my best friend for 20 years, I just can't do that to her".. Good thing too cuz if the friend would have slept with me, Id'a taped it and mailed it to the X and said "wanted you to know I am doing ok".. :crackup:

Still, I say hit em back where it hurts, or at least try to, then never talk to them again... :box:
 

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Docs said:
I'll let you answer this for me. Why DOESN'T she WANT YOU?

Time's Up. It's real simple.

She
Is
NOT
Attracted
To
YOU

What do you mean by this?

My girlfriend broke up with me and to this day msgs me about how i ruined her sex life because other guys will never be able to live up to that standard and she says how she wants to fvck me and how she has sex dreams starring me (all the same things she said as when we were going out). And I know she would come have crazy good sex in a heartbeat if i told her to come over. Yet she doesn't want to be with me anymore so she's not attracted to me?

You're making a vast oversimplification. Women are just retarded in general. OP, don't even ask these questions. There's no answer and no point.
 

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logicallefty said:
Still, I say hit em back where it hurts, or at least try to, then never talk to them again... :box:

She deserves to be treated like sh1t for the sole purpose that you are underqualified to be with her? Mature.

All i've heard that this girl did was break up with him and ATTEMPT to be nice about it in the way girls do it... they don't know it's condescending and worse for the guy but they think they're being nice... so you should fvck their friends to get even? WTF?
 

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mrRuckus said:
What do you mean by this?

My girlfriend broke up with me and to this day msgs me about how i ruined her sex life because other guys will never be able to live up to that standard and she says how she wants to fvck me and how she has sex dreams starring me (all the same things she said as when we were going out). And I know she would come have crazy good sex in a heartbeat if i told her to come over. Yet she doesn't want to be with me anymore so she's not attracted to me?

You're making a vast oversimplification. Women are just retarded in general. OP, don't even ask these questions. There's no answer and no point.
You still talk to a girl that broke up with you? I'd let you borrow my spine, but i only have one.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mrRuckus said:
She deserves to be treated like sh1t for the sole purpose that you are underqualified to be with her? Mature.

All i've heard that this girl did was break up with him and ATTEMPT to be nice about it in the way girls do it... they don't know it's condescending and worse for the guy but they think they're being nice... so you should fvck their friends to get even? WTF?
"You are everything a girl could want" but I don't want you... Gimme a freakin' break. Of all the flakey things women say, I just don't see any excuse for that one..

So yeah, sense you are such a nice person and are nice enough to leave the guy with everything a girl could want to the free dating market, who more in this world would you want to leave such a gift to other than your best friend??? Don't you want the best for her?????
 

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logicallefty said:
Find the hottest single friend or sister she has and say "Glad you feel that way.. You wouldnt have any problem hooking me up with FRIEND/SISTER then would you?".

I almost hooked up with my x-wifes best friend after my divorce which started from a comment similar to that. Then a very torked off look from the X and "are you serious".. ..yeah.. Then went to me talking to the friend on my own without blessing.. Then went to the friend and I bashing the X about why she divorced me. Then went as far as a kiss with the friend and then her saying "Damn I would really love to continue this but she's been my best friend for 20 years, I just can't do that to her".. Good thing too cuz if the friend would have slept with me, Id'a taped it and mailed it to the X and said "wanted you to know I am doing ok".. :crackup:

Still, I say hit em back where it hurts, or at least try to, then never talk to them again... :box:


why is it that just b/c a girl is breaking up with you that you have to hurt her feelings? its her right to break up with some1 if she is not happy. would you like it if some1 did that to you? Thats just rediculous. Why not just take it like a real man and move on? Jesus christ, ppl are so mean and for no reason. Wtf is wrong with you all?
 

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The first girl I was with tried to break up with me like that. I responded by interrogating her, and eventually the truth of the matter was that she saw me as getting "too attached". Several days later, I discovered she had a new boyfriend. Regardless of whether that was the truth, I figured that there was some flaw that caused her to perceive me as "too attached". I've since remedied that problem.
 

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gymshorts said:
why is it that just b/c a girl is breaking up with you that you have to hurt her feelings? its her right to break up with some1 if she is not happy. would you like it if some1 did that to you? Thats just rediculous. Why not just take it like a real man and move on? Jesus christ, ppl are so mean and for no reason. Wtf is wrong with you all?

Maybe it's how the other person broke up with them. Like the guy that told the story about his wife divorcing him. Who knows what went down but this stuff can get ugly so some feel the need to make the other person realize how ugly and disrespectful they were. It's all in how they break up with you. If it's done with respect that's one thing but without it and you're talking a different story. Besides let's say you like one of her friends. What's wrong with you pursuing the friend? Obviously you're not the one for her but maybe you'll workout fine for her friend. Now if you were still in the relationship and pursued something with the friend then yes that's not right but if the relationship is over, it's over.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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88888888 said:
Maybe it's how the other person broke up with them. Like the guy that told the story about his wife divorcing him. Who knows what went down but this stuff can get ugly so some feel the need to make the other person realize how ugly and disrespectful they were. It's all in how they break up with you. If it's done with respect that's one thing but without it and you're talking a different story. Besides let's say you like one of her friends. What's wrong with you pursuing the friend? Obviously you're not the one for her but maybe you'll workout fine for her friend. Now if you were still in the relationship and pursued something with the friend then yes that's not right but if the relationship is over, it's over.
Sounds like a classic case of the "Bad Breaker upper"...lol.
 
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