"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why do girls do this?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Well, there you go. I wouldn't read too much into it
SamTheHobit
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Perfectly said.user name said:
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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nismo-4 said:
Exactly right, honorable judge Nismo.
Last year, there was a girl I was gaming a bit, trying to get out, bang, etc. You know the drill.
Though I never blew up her phone or got into too many online chats, there were a few (and none very long). At the end of every one, she signed off "xoxo" and a smiley face.
What to know what become of that?
1) She never agreed to meet me out.
2) She lied about her relationship status (i.e., said she was just out of a divorce, was reticent about dating...all the while banging a buddy of mine, though she didn't know we knew each other).
3) Continued her flirty ways with me after dropping guy in (2) above and branch swinging to new guy... while still signing off with "xoxo."
I dropped my pursuit before I even knew about these guys because she didn't play along with my game plan. Still, when I found out, I chuckled. Women...
X's, O's, and smiley faces meaning nothing to most hos except as a way of keeping a man like a cat chasing a dangling string. Proceed with caution.
Yes, ultimately they mean nothing until the P is in the V.