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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do girls apologize so much?

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Yeah, well, something I've been noticing alot lately is that some girls will go out of their way to apologize to you and I'm interested in knowing if it really means anything. Take this for example, I'm walking into the hallway and this chick accidently, she replies with "Sorry, no I really didn't mean to hit", I say something along the lines of "It's okay", then she says "Sorry, I can just be a goof somtimes" or something like that. That's the only time I've ever had a girl really go that in-depth with a "Sorry", but overall, girls are always say "Sorry', even over the littlist things. Are girls just nice like that or is there a reason that they're always doing, like maybe there intimidated or something? Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Why do you post for the sake of posting? The more you post, the more i think youre a troll.
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Why do you post for the sake of posting? The more you post, the more i think youre a troll.
A guy can't ask a simple question? God damn.
 

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Well maybe because that's polite. It's pretty rude and weird if you walk into someone and then completely ignore them.
BTW. It's not just that girls do that, all (normal) human beings do that.
 

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Most guys can't handle rejection and breakdown and cry for a few months.

If she's apologizing to you or around you, it's possible that she wants you to notice how she is socially accepted. ie. 'look at me, I'm submissive to society's norms!'

Ask a general question, get a generalized answer. ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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because youre an intimidating band member
 

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Girls appologize so much so that you can create pointless threads 2 hours later and ask why they appologize so much.

Oh btw they appologize because thats what people do when they walk into each other.

'nother reason is so that you dont think she's some kind of *****.
 

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Some girls are nice, some girls are mean, some girls are flirts, some girls are serious, and some girls are all of the above. The scenario you gave would probably be in the "nice girl" category. Nice girls apologize when they think they've done something wrong.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Viper
A guy can't ask a simple question? God damn.
Stop f*cking psychoanalyzing this. SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU! I thought ALL the girls in your school were stupid b*tches??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Viper
Are girls just nice like that or is there a reason that they're always doing, like maybe there intimidated or something? Thanks.
Does it REALLY matter? Is it going to affect your game? Does anyone care what girls think?

The answer is no.
 

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have a serious talk with your principal and tell him that you won't put up with that bullsh1t any longer and if they suspend you or do anything against you, your family is gonna bring that case to the school council and then to the police, for touching you without a reason. the principal will be afraid about getting the school involved in a law case, so he will just say sorry
 

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Originally posted by Jay-X
have a serious talk with your principal and tell him that you won't put up with that bullsh1t any longer and if they suspend you or do anything against you, your family is gonna bring that case to the school council and then to the police, for touching you without a reason. the principal will be afraid about getting the school involved in a law case, so he will just say sorry
I like your style Italy man. Try this one, hell, you might even get some compensation for that massively, life threatning incident.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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they think they are suppose to aplogize for everything , even things not related to them, for empathy's sake.
 

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ok viper... im with you on this one... i think they just wanna show you their good side and not make you want to think of them badly.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
Some girls are nice, some girls are mean, some girls are flirts, some girls are serious, and some girls are all of the above. The scenario you gave would probably be in the "nice girl" category. Nice girls apologize when they think they've done something wrong.
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Originally posted by []D [] []V[] []D
ok viper... im with you on this one... i think they just wanna show you their good side and not make you want to think of them badly.
 
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