"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why do fat chicks think they deserve "in shape" guys?

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Just to clear things up; i'm not into pigs eather. I don't mind the gurls with "little extra", but i wouldn't go for the pigs...

Realize guys, HAW MANY GUYS DO YOU HAVE WALKING AROUND WITH A SIX PACK. NOT MANY. There is lot of dorks out there too and lot of hot chicks put up with them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Me and my friends always make fun of them in front of them. Just insult em so hard untill they drop their attitude. I really dislike fat people. Yes, just because they're are fat. Now, I am a pretty lazy dude when it comes to some things, but am I a ****ing pig? No, no.
Here's a nice slogan: I'll eat what i need.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
This man was so wonderful and treated me perfectly as I did him.
Notice haw she didn't say; "he treated me like a princes......."

We have already determened hundreds of times over that there is a difference between what woman actually say, and what men understand ......... Lets not go down that road again....
 

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I'm still wondering how this thread got to be so big, but anyways....


You guys are talking about fat women wanting in-shape guys, right?

What about hot women with not a penny to their names wanting a rich man? Or what about hot dumb blondes who have never stepped foot in a college classroom wanting a guy who has two masters degrees?

Let's not leave out the other hypocrites out of the picture, right?

I generally don't think it's in our best interests to put women into a ratings system. The woman is either a 1 or a 0, 1 being she's good enough for you, and 0 meaning she isn't.

For some reason most guys tend to think that thin women are somehow BETTER than overweight ones. I tend to say that it depends on the girl. I don't care how big or small she is, if I'm attracted to her, it's on.

The truth of the matter is this: Most women with hot bodies don't have the best personalities, while most women who are overweight are unattractive, not that this can't go the other way around, but you guys see what I mean.

In actuallity, the the reason why so many overweight women want trim guys is because these guys have something that they want. It's the same reason why old fat guys want 21 year old supermodels. It's the same thing - they kind of feel like the other person's out of their league so that makes them require them.

Personally, I've dated women of all shapes and sizes and I'll tell you that there's going to be something DRASTICALLY wrong with most women you date, I don't care what the case is. If it's not her looks, it's something just as bad or in most cases worse.
 

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some times society can influence us, i like this particular fat girl becauses she nice and pretty only problem is my friends say shes too fat for me and id feel shy walking with her. i think some fat girls need to try and loose a lil weight, not skinny but atleast 3 to for pound would do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Honestly though. If she's a girl that doesn't have self-disciplined and isn't too concerned about her body, why should I be?
 

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Honestly though. If she's a girl that doesn't have self-disciplined and isn't too concerned about her body, why should I be?


dude, exactly..I dont want to hear that a fatty wants a hot guy..good luck FATTY!
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Honestly though. If she's a girl that doesn't have self-disciplined and isn't too concerned about her body, why should I be?
That's what I've been trying to convey. It's like they think you should accept them for who they are, but they don't need to accept you for who you are.

Nobody is putting down fat chicks. But when you expect more of someone else than what you're will to do yourself, I have a problem with that.
 

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Nobody is putting down fat chicks. But when you expect more of someone else than what you're will to do yourself, I have a problem with that.


BINGO!
 

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this is a great thread.

last year i took a class. there was a girl in there who had the hugest belly ever. she looked 9 mo's preggo. and she wore see-thru clothes, like it was sexy.

it was actually a beer belly. turns out she drank like a fish. she had a bad attitude. she had no job (lived off of daddy). she couldn't even afford new clothes anymore, she complained about that. and she was on my jock 24/7. she would say stuff like, "i can't believe your single. what's wrong with you? are you gay?"

when i finally blew her off she had a major temper tantrum, took it out on not just me, but the other women i was friends with.

so i think she was deluding herself. i'm a skinny guy who keeps in shape, own my own business, wear nice clothes, etc. i'm not brad pitt by any stretch, but all the women in that class were after me and some were cuties with nice personalities, jobs, etc.

there was another guy there, also quite decent, bit older than me, and basically stopped coming b/c this other fattie would not just not take no. she'd change her hair every week, hit on him in all kinds of crazy ways, etc.

i know what it's like ot lust after someone out of your league, but i never walked around in muscle shirts when i was a shrimp, or chased the hot chicks when i had no chance, etc. these girls need a reality check. but since they are a growing portion of the population (pun intended) media is going the opposite way, convincing them fat is sexy, to get them to buy more products, etc.

not good
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I like to ignore the hot chicks in an area and go around talking to the fat ones right in front of them. Powerful stuff.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Fat people are wrecking society with their obesity and health problems that I have to pay for out of my taxes.
IT'S WORSE THAN THAT NOW!

as of a few months ago, obesity was officially categorized as a "disease". now all these fat people have a "legitimate" reason to be fat.

"hey...i have a disease...yay!"

i call it the diseasification of america. watch your health insurance premiums will go up, as some fat pig eating a gallon of ice cream right 'out the container, is online writing her profile, demanding Bradd Pitt.

the reason why a lot of fat chicks are demanding a hot guy is simply because there are sooooooo many decent looking guys in america, who are fvcking chumps. but women always want more...not green eyes, but smoldering green eyes, etc. a fatty gets herself a decent guy, and now she wants a hot guy.

combine this with the liberal media scam of the BBW, and average women (e.g. fat women) are sexy, all of which is orchistrated by....you guessed it...FAT PEOPLE!

i was in vega$ a couple of weeks ago (my little home away from home). for some reason, on this trip, i was astonished to see how many fat people there were. the theme of the weekend was:

MUDSLIDE

as in, "....look at THAT fvcking MUDSLIDE"

what's worse is that you have all of these fat chicks walking around a mall or university, dressed like britney spears, with the low rise jeans and the belly shirt. the part of their belly and ass that they couldn't stuff into those jeans is pouring out.

who the fvck do they think they are? lol. YUCK! but guys are hitting on them! DOUBLE-YUCK!

if she doesn't care about her body, why should i?
 

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I wipe my own a.ss :D

Anyway, those fat chicks... they sure are overweight. Huh? Am I right? *high five*

*tumbleweed* :(
 
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Eh. I am bothered by the fact that men are wussied out enough that women feel comfortable being so haughty when they don't have much to offer in return, but fat in and of itself isn't a big deal for me personally. I prefer chubby women myself, as long as they still have an hourglass figure.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think alot of women expect too damn much today.
 

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Remember also that fat chicks don't see anything wrong with their weight, therefore their requirments of a man are totally incongruent with their own physical appearance...
 

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Originally posted by naoi deag se deag
I love this post. I slept with a girl whose breasts might have been bigger and heavier than my head. We're talking beyond the scope of this veteran breast-size-guesser's knowledge. She was a collegiate swimmer, too... so not a fatty by any stretch. It was wack... turns out she was too. :(

Guys, I don't know a lot about the relative merits of some guy versus some girl's deceased fiancé, but I do know that arguing, attacking and most of all QUALIFYING on an INTERNET CHAT BOARD is NOT DJ. So everyone should remember that.

WOW, those must have been some seriously BIG FVCKING T1TS, you lucky b4tst4rd! :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 

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They might say they demand certain physical traits but do they get them? Maybe. As other people have mentioned, a lot of guys are attracted to larger women. It's either that, or they figure the extra weight is a trade off for how much easier they think it will be dating an overweight person. Some guys just want to get laid on a regular basis with minimal game playing.

They demand these things because they CAN. There are guys out there who meet the criteria and pursue them.
 

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Originally posted by Tazman
They might say they demand certain physical traits but do they get them? Maybe. As other people have mentioned, a lot of guys are attracted to larger women. It's either that, or they figure the extra weight is a trade off for how much easier they think it will be dating an overweight person. Some guys just want to get laid on a regular basis with minimal game playing.

They demand these things because they CAN. There are guys out there who meet the criteria and pursue them.
The reality of the situation is that some fat chicks do score decent looking guys, but it RARELY develops into a relationship.

I heard an analogy once that I think might apply. "Dating fat chicks is like riding a moped. They're both fun to ride, until your friends see you on one"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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