"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why do exes ask these questions

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not only from my experience but from friends who have been in long term relationships that have ended the girl will always seem to ask this in her own way during future random interactions

"so what are you planning to do with your life, career wise?"
"what would you do if you lost your sub-par job?"
"what do you want to do to better yourself?"
"why havent you found a better job yet?
etc

are they money hungry or what, why do they care so much
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just comparing you to who they are currently with or considering you for a future branch to swing to if you become succesful enough.
 
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I've never actually had that problem. Do you have crappy job or something?
 
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Do you have crappy job or something?
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to some its not considered a "career job"

Just comparing you to who they are currently with or considering you for a future branch to swing to if you become succesful enough.
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so basically steer away from these girls?
 
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most importantly, whats the best way to answer/deal?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cNfny said:
not only from my experience but from friends who have been in long term relationships that have ended the girl will always seem to ask this in her own way during future random interactions

"so what are you planning to do with your life, career wise?"
"what would you do if you lost your sub-par job?"
"what do you want to do to better yourself?"
"why havent you found a better job yet?
etc

are they money hungry or what, why do they care so much
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You could say... I'm gonna be a wealthy man living a good life and have a family. Then, you could say to your ex: Too bad it didn't work out with us. Oh well, i'll just have to find a new woman to live that life with me. And you don't talk to your ex ever again!!! :crackup: maybe thats a lil too mean...
 
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