"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MattS

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I have never figured out why girls do this. Why do girls call a guy up and lets say you miss it and call them back like a couple hours after they dont call you back the same night or the next day maybe theyll call you back like 4 days later?

Ive had girls do this like ill cut off contact then theyll call I call them back then they dont return the call. Why call in the first place if youre not going to return a call? A girl did this she called me out of the blue havent talked for a while. I called her back and she didnt call back. The missed call was like at 7pm so it wasn't a booty call.

Whats the best way to handle this? Try to call them again like 4 days later and just say fvck it?

For all I know she could be testing me to see my reaction. She does like attention I know that. I guess im indifferent she calls she calls she doesnt she doesnt
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They do this stuff for a number of reasons. I don't think it's to test you as much as others here will tell you.. Possible causes are..
-she doesn't want to seem easy/desperate
-she doesn't think it's a big deal. That's not to say she's not into you. She figures she got a call from you, so things are fine.. but doesn't think far enough to realize a timely call back would be nice. Look at my recommendations below, it'll show how to "explain" this to her.
-she honestly is playing games.
-???

Recommend:
*** Talk with other women. She's not a sure thing, so avoid one-itus.
- Call her back, if you want to. Don't make a big deal of the first time, go ahead and call the next day or so.
-If she continues on this path, then I'd wait days before returning her call, or don't return the call; make her call a second time. I mean, why get "put in your place?" If she acts on the up and up, fixes this, then go forward. If she does not, then you have your answer about her.
 

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My opinion buddy is that you have tooo much time on your hands. Yep, you have more time available then you have women...that's why you actually care about things like this.

You say,

"Whats the best way to handle this? Try to call them again like 4 days later and just say fvck it?"

Noooo, why resort to game playing? With the vast array of women out there, why are you even so obsessed with one to resort to game playing? At the end of the day, I don't care what "they" told you, but "pvssy is pvssy."

You continued,

"For all I know she could be testing me to see my reaction. She does like attention I know that."

Lol, you are overanalyzing this, you seem to have one-itis, dude go out and get some chicks dudes. Right now. If you don't know what to do to get laid on a constant basis, check out Gunwitch. Gunwitch at the end of the day, if you go out and do what he says, should just allow you to leave this forum and not return. You might have other problems, but women won't be one of them.
 
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