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Why do black girls make it more noticeable when they like you

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TIC said:
I think she does feel forced and over time just came to accept it. I also think she's brainwashed


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpCxkO2up4w&feature=related
Skip to 1:12. Doesn't sound like she feels black. It sounds like she has been forced to accept it.


Not true. There are people who look fully white but have some black in them and are treated as white. This is because genetics can work in many different ways. Just because you have some black dna does not make you black necessarily. You could get genetics from anywhere and have a completely different phenotype than your black family members. There were people that did this even during the jim crow era...


Let me ask you something. What race is vin diesel?


http://images.askmen.com/galleries/men/vin-diesel/pictures/vin-diesel-picture-1.jpg

White, to 99% of the world. You look at him and there isn't a trace of blackness....yet he has black in him. Think about it. He is not a "nigga" to anyone unless they already knew of his parents, which most people don't. He could go anywhere in europe, he would not be called "nigga" he looks fully white.


http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-6pQKEVjga...8/pLOys0J_eNo/s1600/Wentworth_Miller_0054.jpg

What race is this guy? Would you call him "nigga"? Would whites not accept him? Where are his black features? He has black in him in case you aren't aware. Yet he looks fully white.

Phenotype= your race. The dude is white, no matter how many black relatives he has

It was cute in the beginning but you need to stop. Who are you to tell someone what they are? Who gives a ****?

I think you're the one who is brainwashed TIC

If a person is born with black blood in their veins, knows about their heritage, grew up in accordant lifestyle and culture....that says a lot about them. Of course it doesn't mean anything to *******s who only care about skin tone

I mean really dude....it doesn't even matter. chill out
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think the concept of race is a joke. It will soon be as the Latino population rises in the next few decades.
 

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Marvin Gaye said:
It was cute in the beginning but you need to stop. Who are you to tell someone what they are? Who gives a ****?

I think you're the one who is brainwashed TIC

If a person is born with black blood in their veins, knows about their heritage, grew up in accordant lifestyle and culture....that says a lot about them. Of course it doesn't mean anything to *******s who only care about skin tone

I mean really dude....it doesn't even matter. chill out
I don't have to stop anything. I'm right and he's wrong. You're wrong. You know nothing of genetics. All you can do is spit out the same one-track brainwashed message you've been fed you're whole life.

Tell me what was wrong with what I said. How am I wrong. You can't refute my points, you can only say stupid ish like "it was cute in the beginning but shutup"

pathetic.

and yea some may call themselves black, but that doesn't mean they are to the rest of the world. Vin diesel doesn't, nor does he have to

I'm not going to continue arguing with you guys if you can't even refute the points.
 

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One you said brain wash i refuting that point. As far your genetic are concern most black people american have white in them from good old slavery days. What you said was not wrong but any more right what i just said now. its one of those agree to disagree situation which really doesn't matter. My problem with this thread was how he decide isolate one race and make it seem like all black women are like that. If i came up here and said why the white women make so obvious that they like you. this broad would had a crying ***** fest.

Thats point im trying to get down. Attractiness eye of the beholder. As far as the guy that said look at what actress sale the most. well majority of buyers are white male so the correlation in it self would assume that they want white women. common sense. Vin diesel doesn't have to because he is accept as white. And if that your agruement what about an albino african american. just side note they look white. smh
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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crazyboy said:
One you said brain wash i refuting that point. As far your genetic are concern most black people american have white in them from good old slavery days. What you said was not wrong but any more right what i just said now. its one of those agree to disagree situation which really doesn't matter. My problem with this thread was how he decide isolate one race and make it seem like all black women are like that. If i came up here and said why the white women make so obvious that they like you. this broad would had a crying ***** fest.

Thats point im trying to get down. Attractiness eye of the beholder. As far as the guy that said look at what actress sale the most. well majority of buyers are white male so the correlation in it self would assume that they want white women. common sense. Vin diesel doesn't have to because he is accept as white. And if that your agruement what about an albino african american. just side note they look white. smh
This
 

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Kerpal is correct. Its been studied and proven true: men are more attracted to women with lighter skin tones. This is true across all races and cultures, which is why even in China and stuff pale skin tones are prized in women.

The flip side of this is that women are more attracted to guys with darker skin tone. Don't believe me? But its true, studies confirm it. Kinda sucks for redskin whities like me, but meh~ gotto play with the cards you're dealt right?
 

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crazyboy said:
Vin diesel doesn't have to because he is accept as white.
Well thank you, you just proved my point. That was what I was arguing; despite the fact that vin has far more than a drop of black blood, he is still considered fully white. So alot of people in this thread don't know what they're talking about obviously. At least you admit it

crazyboy said:
And if that your agruement what about an albino african american. just side note they look white. smh
:rolleyes: No they don't. They may have no color but their facial structure will still resemble a black person and plus their hair will be kinky, plus their nose will be flat...it will still be apparent that they are African american. Once again you really don't know much and it shows. Race is more than just being light or dark....
 

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@dikmojo

I love how these dudes still try and ignore my posts like i did not make hugely valid points in this and the other black chick thread floating around.

studies can say anything you want them to. and i dont buy the study your touting...especially considering black people can travel to eastern europe and asia and clean house with the women and men alike

and despite even that...global media which is mostly influenced by the west...pushes eurocentric beauty ideals...and i dont see darker latino men doing better with the ladies then whites guys...at least not in the us and western europe. look at okcupids trends blog and the response rate for race.

thats why i call bull on your lil argument. media and society shapes all that we do...hell most dudes were bisexual in ancient rome and greek days and nowadays dudes act homophobic and overly macho...and also just 65 to 70 years ago those who dated interracially had their lives in danger in the south. now black men are a hot commodity in metro areas. i was in nyc a few weeks ago and saw the sexiest white chick with this cool african guy. they looked very happy and it made me smile. i also saw an asian and latino couple.

even though i grew up in the city, ive been in the suburbs for college for 4 years and you do not see that up here. so its like culture shock even though i grew up around that.

anyways my bringing up the past dangers of dating interracially(it was even illegal when my grandma was a young woman) shows exactly how its society that dictates our tastes in anything.

but hell what i wanna know is why white people always make threads about what black people do. you hardly see this crap on black forums, esp when all these threads are is an attempt to ego stroke white men and their tastes. white women dont have time for this crap and i never hear them say half the crap the men do. it really says a lot about you guys and how some of you seem to have this inferiority complex that you need to constantly say how blacks are this or that.

if a girl they want, whatever race she is, is with a black guy some of these guys will sit around saying dumb crap about brothers.especially if shes white or asian..or they call the girl ugly or say "eh she aint hot anyways" when they know theyd game her if they could.

and if a sister is with a white dude they cry about how they dont know why hes with her...whys it fvkin matter what someone else does in their dating life...stop being afc hater chumps and go do your own thing and leave people be
 

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Danger said:
Honestly, where do you get something like this?



Now this I totally agree with. Why not call him Asian? Sometimes people are just fvcked up an want to categorize people. That way of thinking is existent across race and gender though. It's not just whites that consider Obama black, blacks think the same thing.
actually youd be surprised by how many white people go out of their way to point out that hes half white and call him mixed. only because hes an important person and a positive person at that. if he was just another person on the street they would all see him as black. you have to see the political forums or even talk with people when youre out and about.

and again, its generally only the dudes who do this and get offended when you call him the first black president. or they try and sit and "prove" how other presidents had black in them. basically anything to take away from a victory for minorities. hell i wonder if he would of won in 2008 if he was fully black and raised by black grandparents.
 

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Where the heck you live? I live in a suburb and I see interracial dating everywhere. You must live in the racist north.
 

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I went to this Greek restaurant the other day and there were interracial couples at every table.

Blonde chick with black dude

White dude with asian chick. (of course).

White chick with indian dude.

White dudes with black chick and etc.

This was Mississauga Ontario.
 

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Danger said:
D1kmojo said nothing attacking in any way.

Talk about hate man, you have it more than anyone. Stop being so insecure when you see the word *black*.
i was only responding to his thing about men prefering light women and women preferring dark men.

the rest of what i said was in response to the bulk of the idiots in this thread.

and hate? thats funny when you see the threads that are started on this site that do nothing but perpetuate negativity towards blacks. this and the other thread up right now are the latest of many many of these kind of threads.

and insecure? not really...have you read this thread or the other black chick thread in its entirety....when i defend my people its me being insecure.....riiiiight
 

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Can't we all just get along?

We're all here because we can't get any pu$$y, lets just keep helping each other out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Johnnyventana said:
Yeah, the black chick's aren't attractive thing is weird.
No, it's an opinion. Doesn't every man have a right to define what attracts him and what doesn't? There is some kind of unwritten law that villifies a man for having and stating his preference?

Aren't women the ones who we expect to hang a thousand deep meanings on a single word and to get all huffy about it?
 

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^atom atom atom

didnt you know that anything some white guys say is actually gospel for the rest of the world preferences.

didnt you know that if you have a differing viewpoint than them it couldnt possibly be accurate at all. its just pc because it doesnt push the idea that their views are always right.

come on atom...you know better *rolls eyes*

/sarcasm

if what is being said in these black chick threads is so true like these dudes try and say, why do i never see asian, latino, indian, etc...why dont i see men of those ethnicities making threads across the internet about how unattractive black people are.
 

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JPlaya said:
Where the heck you live? I live in a suburb and I see interracial dating everywhere. You must live in the racist north.

OP ARE YOU BLACK? WHY YOU "DODGING" THE QUESTION LIKE A NEON?

This post is garbage, where the fucc are the mods at? seriously this site needs better moderation, the integrity of the board goes down with these types of threads
 

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Are you kidding me, I just asked where you lived at. I guess anybody that disagrees with you is garbage. What was your question because I went over the ten posting limit yesterday?
 

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Man or woman, white is the standard of beauty. It's an unfortunate consequence of the european conquests.

The past 500 years saw the extermination of american indians and aborigines, enslavement of africa, military campaigns against asia, and colonialism.

The real question is how the anglos were able to do what they have done. 5000 years ago, africa had advanced empires in egypt and nubia, while europeans lived in caves. during the middle ages, china had a great fleet that navigated the seas, korea invented the first printing press and iron clad ships, while europeans were still savages emerging from the dark ages.


As for the original post, yes black women are more aggressive. I get a lot of emails from black women on online dating sites, some even throw sex on me.

Unfortunately, as a product of this euro-centric culture, I prefer white women and most of my 36 lays were white women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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