I've come to the conclusion that i can't get girls I like. I was born w/ this curse, and I'll always have to live w/ it. There isn't any use trying to break through the surface anymore because everytime i do i fall back into the LJBF zone again. To be quite frank...... It sucks. It sucks to have morals, or a conscience, or christian values that you attempt to live by as well as you can. I've never thought i was ugly, and I have a good personality, but i don't even have any "friend-girls." All of them are girls that i've attempted to game, but failed miserably at. On the other hand, the attention whor*s like me, and they always have/will. The girls that other guys would kill for. The girls that people say are way out of my league. I just don't get it. Why can't i ever sucessfully get a girl to go out w/ me? I could have a gf right now if i wanted. Yeah, sure. But not the one I want. I could have multiple gf's. That's the sad truth. It's even sadder that I can pick and choose, but I still have never had a gf (btw i'm 16.) I'm not going to go out w/ someone just because she's "hot" or "gorgeous." I want to be able to have the ability to go out w/ a girl that I like. Not some slvt. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but i know that it has to be fixed. I don't want to go through highschool being a kid that could have everything if he knew how to use what God gave him. I don't want to go through highschool w/o having at least one relationship with someone I actually want. Thanks for reading this rant.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why do attention Who*** like me?
- Thread starter Jokerlsk
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Im not even reading your post, just basing everything off of your title. Attention wh*res like you because you give them attention and thats how they survive...not a difficult concept.
surfdog
Don Juan
you answered your own question..Jokerlsk said:No, actually i give them no attention.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Igetit!
Moderator
I don't understand this Jokerisk. Just a few days ago you were telling me how the advice I gave you about switching your behaviors between the girls you like and the girls you don't like was getting results,and how you had to keep it up. And now,only four or five days later,you're saying that you've reached some conclusion that you can't date girls that you like. What's happened,man? You mean to tell me that this episode with this latest girl turned you sour? Just because things didn't work out with this one girl?Jokerlsk said:I've come to the conclusion that i can't get girls I like. I was born w/ this curse, and I'll always have to live w/ it. There isn't any use trying to break through the surface anymore because everytime i do i fall back into the LJBF zone again. To be quite frank...... It sucks. It sucks to have morals, or a conscience, or christian values that you attempt to live by as well as you can. I've never thought i was ugly, and I have a good personality, but i don't even have any "friend-girls." All of them are girls that i've attempted to game, but failed miserably at. On the other hand, the attention whor*s like me, and they always have/will. The girls that other guys would kill for. The girls that people say are way out of my league. I just don't get it. Why can't i ever sucessfully get a girl to go out w/ me? I could have a gf right now if i wanted. Yeah, sure. But not the one I want. I could have multiple gf's. That's the sad truth. It's even sadder that I can pick and choose, but I still have never had a gf (btw i'm 16.) I'm not going to go out w/ someone just because she's "hot" or "gorgeous." I want to be able to have the ability to go out w/ a girl that I like. Not some slvt. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but i know that it has to be fixed. I don't want to go through highschool being a kid that could have everything if he knew how to use what God gave him. I don't want to go through highschool w/o having at least one relationship with someone I actually want. Thanks for reading this rant.
So you're having some problems dating. Yeah,and? Everyone here has some sort of problem or issue with regards to women. You're only 16 dude. 16!!!! You're still growing man. Heck,your brain hasn't even finished growing,and you're upset you haven't figured it all out yet? Boy,the ego on you.
Dude,I have clothes older than you. You only started puberty what,three or four years ago? You call yourself a screw up. Everyone here is a screw up in one way or another when it comes to women. That's why this forum exist. It's so screw ups can get "unscrewed" up. Nobody here knows everything. I don't,you don't,neither does Daygameguy,Kontroller X,Interceptor,Slickaz,Jayer,ect. Even though none of us knows everything,collectively,all together,each of us has some knowledge and wisdom that can be beneficial to each other.
Things didn't work out with this girl. Well,I sorry about that,but don't let it be a COMPLETE FAILURE. Learn something from it. Otherwise,you'll just run into the next girl and do the same things,and end up with same results all over again. Examine it to see what you did wrong,and if you still can't find anything,I can let you know because the mistakes are clear as day to me.
You asked why do attention wh***s like you. Well,let me ask you this. Are they really attention wh****s? Because sooner or later,they are going to be dating someone. They will end up being the girlfriend of some guy.
To you,they may be attention wh***s,but to some one else,they'll be his girlfriend. Maybe,just maybe there's something you're doing that's causing them to be attention wh***s to you,but the other guys are doing something else that causes them to be their girlfriends. Have you ever thought about that? If every girl that you like ends up being an attention wh***s to you,then that exact same girl goes off and ends up being some other guy's girlfriend,I'd check myself to see what I'm doing wrong. You want this problem fixed,right? Really? What if it's something you're doing that's causing it? Do you still want it fixed,or is easier to call the girl an attention wh***s and forget it?
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