Why do all dating coaches/books omit the #1 key to dating success?

[bigdave17]

I agree that the male model types are rare. No question.

Where we disagree is the minimum threshold of what constitutes a Chad. We’ll agree to disagree on that.

every pic I see of somebody being called a "chad" is an extraordinarily handsome, tall, lean, athletic, white male with perfect hair

dude that ain't no top 20% or 10% male. That's 1 in a 100, maybe 1 in a 1000

What percentage of men even have a good enough bone structure in the face to be a "chad" - you figure 5%?
what percentage of men then are lean enough to have the chiseled jawline look to be a chad - you figure what? 5%? Even most guys who have great bone structure in the face and NW0 hairline are often chubby to where they're not good looking anyways. You have to be 8-10% BF to have that "chad" look

what percent of men are over 6 feet? 20%?

what's 5% of 5% of 20%?

 

[guru1000]

chads are top 0.5% of men
Chad lites are maybe 1% or 2% if even that.

go leave your house and see often you see muscular, lean, male model perfect looking men in general public. Its shockingly rare

What percentile would I be as Chad’s Chad?

 

[bigdave17]

What percentile would I be as Chad’s Chad?

Aren't you like 46 year old?

I need to see pics of this so called Chad status. White people age horribly. I've never seen a 46 year old white guy who was truly super handsome. You guys start to get wrinkles and old looking skin even in the 40s

 

[guru1000]

Aren't you like 46 year old?

I need to see pics of this so called Chad status. White people age horribly. I've never seen a 46 year old white guy who was truly super handsome. You guys start to get wrinkles and old looking skin even in the 40s

I’m not white. In my 40s, Not 46. Look younger than you at 28 yo.

396 Bumble likes in 24 hours (Edited). What happens now to the “white supremacy in OLD” theory?

 

[bigdave17]

I’m not white.

oh ok, that makes sense. What are you? Italian or Greek? Spanish?


I don't doubt that you look good for your age. I'll look this for next 20 years. My uncle aged like 3 years from 30 to 55 lol

 

[IKO69]

every pic I see of somebody being called a "chad" is an extraordinarily handsome, tall, lean, athletic, white male with perfect hair

dude that ain't no top 20% or 10% male. That's 1 in a 100, maybe 1 in a 1000

What percentage of men even have a good enough bone structure in the face to be a "chad" - you figure 5%?
what percentage of men then are lean enough to have the chiseled jawline look to be a chad - you figure what? 5%? Even most guys who have great bone structure in the face and NW0 hairline are often chubby to where they're not good looking anyways. You have to be 8-10% BF to have that "chad" look

what percent of men are over 6 feet? 20%?

what's 5% of 5% of 20%?

Yes, it is retarded. I see guys posting pictures of all these male model looking kind of guys, they are supposed to be the standard - these guys are all swimming in the ***** and there's so many of them and you are supposed to be afraid....yet you hardly ever ****ing run into em'. Not to say they don't exist but you quickly realize that there are a lot of guys blowing things out of proportion and are paranoid. Most of the guys you encounter in real life are NOT going to look like some of the pictures that have been posted. It is NOT a reason to throw your hands up in the air and say there is no point as I have seen on here.

 

[CBear]

Aren't you like 46 year old?

I need to see pics of this so called Chad status. White people age horribly. I've never seen a 46 year old white guy who was truly super handsome. You guys start to get wrinkles and old looking skin even in the 40s

Jon Hamm, David Beckham, Brad Pitt, Hugh Jackman, Bradley Cooper, Josh Brolin, George Clooney, Jeffrey Dean Morgan to name a few. Or what, are those guys average? do they have skin that's not up to par? or do they look like sh!t to you because they're not as tan as you? It's called taking care of yourself and never getting too complacent with life.

ANYONE that takes care of their looks will look good! anyone that doesn't care and is a fat@$$ like you used to be won't. I've always wished you the best but you sound SOOO miserable.

 

[Mike32ct]

every pic I see of somebody being called a "chad" is an extraordinarily handsome, tall, lean, athletic, white male with perfect hair

dude that ain't no top 20% or 10% male. That's 1 in a 100, maybe 1 in a 1000

What percentage of men even have a good enough bone structure in the face to be a "chad" - you figure 5%?
what percentage of men then are lean enough to have the chiseled jawline look to be a chad - you figure what? 5%? Even most guys who have great bone structure in the face and NW0 hairline are often chubby to where they're not good looking anyways. You have to be 8-10% BF to have that "chad" look

what percent of men are over 6 feet? 20%?

Sounds about right.

what's 5% of 5% of 20%?

No GED-level math problems please lol.

My understanding is Chad is typically a male 8 to 8.5+ in looks. Chad-lite is like a male 7.5.

The reason Chad pictures have these extreme male 9+ models is because blackpill people like to exaggerate in their jokes. And guys who do the “Chad pic”catfish experiments use male models for maximum results.

But in real life, not all Chads are drop dead hot. Some borderline Chads might just be say 80th+ percentile looks guys.

You have in your head that Chad ALWAYS means near genetic perfection. I’m not sure that’s what everybody else has in mind when they use the term.

 

[Epicurus]

If you ask me, the obsession with Chad is pretty gay. Like huh

 

[HankHill]

Despite the fact that some people are taking things a little too serious I'm finding this to be a very interesting discussion.

I'd have to put my thoughts together a little better when I have more time to type but, I'm not white and I'm not a Chad. Yet I've always dated/married white or white-like women. May be a fluke? OLD is a bit tougher now perhaps because of some of the reasons JohnyX brought up as well as my own stricter criteria for women -I'm in my early 40s now so I don't swipe right unless I can see myself with that type of a person long term. However, so far I've been doing ok on dates - and dates that I'd say are definitely beyond my league if judged just based on the looks.

I do agree with bigdave17 that most men that women come in contact with won't be Chads, sure Tinder like stuff is messing with their heads but I find it hard to believe that Chad lookalikes will ever swipe right on most of these women. Heck, I skip past majority only swiping right on may be one or two a week (granted my priorities have changed). I also agree with him that white men and women tend to age fast after hitting their late 30s.