Why do a lot of my friends girlfriends like me

[PeasantPlayer]

Decided to make this thread after reading a similar one a few threads down. I been noticing that when my friends have girlfriends (not all of them) they seem to take a liking to me. Maybe they are trying to make their boyfriends jealous, sometimes I feel like they really want my meat stick. And the feeling is guilt and power. One time one of my buddies hooked up with a girl, we met her the same day with 2 other friends. Well as it would end up one of the 4 friends hooked up with her. She didnt give me any eye contact and we didnt even talk...but as he kept bringing her around I noticed she was flirting in front of him and behind his back, eventually she startee coming to my house on her own they broke up over other issues I ended up banging her. I felt bad I was young I learned.

anyway this happens other times, sometimes it to get their boyfriend jealous or they want to insert myself in them. Had a friend hook up with a chick at bar, I was talking to her first he ended up gaming her, he brings her around she flirts trys hooking me up with her cousin. Why does this happen?

 

[potato]

When I was a lot younger I used to have the same problem, my friends’ girlfriends taking a liking to me. Usually nothing came of it because I used to never pursue women that I deemed to be taken. But I reached the point where I realized that most women were with the man they were with because he was the one asking her out, not that he was her preference.

A lot of the mechanics of it has to do with that I have long adopted the idea that I am the prize and many of the girlfriends/wives of my friends/acquaintances are in relationships were the woman is the prize. Over the years I’ve gotten very good at playing with the dynamics of this unbalanced system. I’m continually amazed at how often that I’ve been able to subtly flirt with a woman, ramping up the sexual tension till she’s on the verge of squirming, and her boyfriend/husband will be right there, seemingly completely unaware of what is going on.

A common concern of these women tends to be that they appear loyal to their man, which is really that they don’t want to lose what they have materially. So every thing proceeds in body language in little glances and occasional touches. As I’m not the type that regularly hits on women most guys seem to think that I wouldn’t come onto their woman. It is an odd kind of trust – one that allows the cover to violate that trust. I don’t come onto their woman; she’ll make the first physical contact. It’s common for women to say that they feel “safe” with me, implying that I would not make any unwanted advances towards them.

Once I was at this party. There was a couple there I knew. I think they’d been together about eight years then. Anyhow the guy had to leave early, something about his job; he was headed out of town. Anyhow, late into the night and his wife had been drinking and was in no condition to drive home. Being the nice safe guy that I am, I offered to give her a ride home. Everyone thought it was a good idea. We didn’t get a block down the road and suddenly she sobered up real quick. It wasn’t the first time we found an excuse to run off together. It’s been twenty years. I think that they are still together. I doubt he’ll ever know.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

412 and potato I hear ya....I remember when my friend brought his friend and his girlfriend out to a get together. This chick was full blown hitting on me and her boyfriend knew it, she touched my inner thigh put her head in my lap, her boyfriend pulled her off. It was super akward, my other friend looked at me like WTF. I then seen one of my other "friends" girl staring out the corner of my eye and when I caught her she turned away real quick. When I meet girls I am usually arrogant and the pick the guy who plays the nice guy role. Because my "friends" like to run trains, they are savages lmao. This has happened to other friends of mine to. Guy with boyfriend hitting on them. Can't trust anyone. I like this message board underneath it all its about so much more about gaming women