why didn't the guys who want a virgin wife get married in HS?

[devilkingx2]

I'm sure we all remember that thread that reached like 13 pages where many guys expressed the extremely hypocritical(for most of them anyway) view of wanting a virgin for marriage and serious relationships....

which leaves the question, why didn't they get a girlfriend in high school when 90%+ of the girls were virgins and 99.99% of the guys were and marry her?

surely they realized that unless you date a girl who is in or just came out of high school a virgin is exceedingly unlikely

 

[sharkbeat]

You would be pretty dumb to get married in high school.

 

[Iceberg]

Most of those guys probably didn't even speak to a woman until they were 15 years out of high school.

 

[pinkfl]

Because they don't have jobs.
Men like to have all their ducks in a row before they consider marriage (if he's the marrying type).

 

[Jair213]

i have a couple of buddys that are married to there HS sweet hearts. I broke up with mine junior year. If i would have known better I would have stuck with her. Now she's married and has 1 kid with one of my buddys. LOL

 

[youngmack]

Well now a days its super rare to find a virgin even in high school. I just graduated high school and you would be shocked to find out how many girls were not virgins. I would say about 95% HS girls are not virgins. Even the 14 year old freshmans are getting gang banged on rooftops by 17-18 year old seniors.

All they care about is smoking ,drinking, looking pretty,bad boys,partying, and popularity

 

[Epimanes]

I married my high school virgin gf at 18. This wednesday is 15 years married which is ****ing amazing. We got a great life with 2 kids. Many ups and downs (more ups than down for the most part). Not rich. But happy and blessed. Healthy, fairly youthful and my wifes a hb8 (to me anyhow). Intimate life is great (hasn't always been, but kids do put a damper things a bit). In 8 years or less both my kids will be grown adults. I'm gunna have a great fukin time after the kids are all gone.

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Epi

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Most of those guys probably didn't even speak to a woman until they were 15 years out of high school.

I was thinking the same thing.

Now they're setting themselves up for failure. Keep dreaming.

I married my high school virgin gf at 18. This wednesday is 15 years married which is ****ing amazing. We got a great life with 2 kids. Many ups and downs (more ups than down for the most part). Not rich. But happy and blessed. Healthy, fairly youthful and my wifes a hb8 (to me anyhow). Intimate life is great (hasn't always been, but kids do put a damper things a bit). In 8 years or less both my kids will be grown adults. I'm gunna have a great fukin time after the kids are all gone.

Good for you.

 

[1-800-HellNo]

Guys like that didn't do good with girls in high school, which is why they think they even have a chance of finding a virgin girl as they get older.

I thought it was weird when I was in HS and lost my virginity to a girl who had taken 3 other guys virginity already at 16.
Guys with no experience with girls don't realize that girls actually want sex just like the "jerk" guys do.

Also it's either an ego, or shame thing.
They don't want to worry about if they can compete with whatever guy(s) she's fvcked previously.

My best friend did marry his highschool GF and I believe their marriage will work out but he got LUCKY. When I talk to him about girls and dating, he calls me misogynistic pretty much always. He has no concept about how girls actually are. He would be the guy described in OP had he not have met someone in highschool.

I know there is a case of someone happily married to their HS GF in this thread, but I know that most of the time it ends badly. I've seen this happen three times to people I know.
Usually the girls slvt around because they feel like they've missed out on certain life experiences, which to be fair, they did.

 

[JohnChops]

Lol is this Sam on a different account ?

 

[SamTheHobit]

Hahaha Not even bro :/ ^^

To answer the OP. The girl I planned on being with turned out to be a little to "Independent". And eventually broke up with me 3 times over the past 5 years for bullsh1t reasons.

It would be disheartening to never find a virgin girlfriend/wife material.

 

[JoeMarron]

Yeah if you didn't grab a virgin by the end of high school you're screwed. The average person loses their virginity at around 17 so if you're out of high school looking for virgins most of them will be minors. If you want a virgin stop wasting your time here and start cold approaching because you're gonna be doing that for a long time.

 

[devilkingx2]

Well now a days its super rare to find a virgin even in high school. I just graduated high school and you would be shocked to find out how many girls were not virgins. I would say about 95% HS girls are not virgins. Even the 14 year old freshmans are getting gang banged on rooftops by 17-18 year old seniors.

All they care about is smoking ,drinking, looking pretty,bad boys,partying, and popularity

what high school did you freaking go to?

I can say with 99% certainty that almost all the girls in my grade are virgins(one of them just got pregnant and had a kid, so she's out)

why? because I hang out with that one guy who has the 411 on everyone, and I'm pretty sure he'd know and then tell us if anyone else was doing the deed.

though I think in the years(by the middle of 2015) to come, the # of virgins will go way, way, down.

Guys like that didn't do good with girls in high school, which is why they think they even have a chance of finding a virgin girl as they get older.

I thought it was weird when I was in HS and lost my virginity to a girl who had taken 3 other guys virginity already at 16.
Guys with no experience with girls don't realize that girls actually want sex just like the "jerk" guys do.

Also it's either an ego, or shame thing.
They don't want to worry about if they can compete with whatever guy(s) she's fvcked previously.

My best friend did marry his highschool GF and I believe their marriage will work out but he got LUCKY. When I talk to him about girls and dating, he calls me misogynistic pretty much always. He has no concept about how girls actually are. He would be the guy described in OP had he not have met someone in highschool.

I know there is a case of someone happily married to their HS GF in this thread, but I know that most of the time it ends badly. I've seen this happen three times to people I know.
Usually the girls slvt around because they feel like they've missed out on certain life experiences, which to be fair, they did.

preach it brother, +1

Lol is this Sam on a different account ?

you talking about me?

I'm nothing like sam, although I do respect him for not having sex with 30 girls AND expecting a virgin partner, he follows his own standards.

Hahaha Not even bro :/ ^^

To answer the OP. The girl I planned on being with turned out to be a little to "Independent". And eventually broke up with me 3 times over the past 5 years for bullsh1t reasons.

It would be disheartening to never find a virgin girlfriend/wife material.

you're 19, depending on your local laws just find someone who is exactly the age of consent, or nearing the age of consent and you'll have an amazingly high chance of finding the virgin of your dreams.

 

[Jaylan]

Yeah, most people lose their virginity in their mid teens. Some lose it in their early teens, some their late teens. But definitely after highschool you are a fvcked if you still think you can find a virgin.

Good luck hobbit Sam.

 

[Purefilth]

In the UK, the legal age of consent is 16. I remember it being considered weird if you hadn't lost your virginity before then. All the hottest girls in my year group had.

Something to think about when looking for that ideal virgin.

same - most girls had it lost at 15, 16 latest - 17 = hard pushed to find em.

My ex was 26 when I took her cherry though, but she's turkish.

There are countries that still hold old values and cultures - but I think she was an anomaly even for there.

 

[devilkingx2]

I would say about 95% HS girls are not virgins. Even the 14 year old freshmans are getting gang banged on rooftops by 17-18 year old seniors.

I thought it was weird when I was in HS and lost my virginity to a girl who had taken 3 other guys virginity already at 16.

In the UK, the legal age of consent is 16. I remember it being considered weird if you hadn't lost your virginity before then. All the hottest girls in my year group had.

Something to think about when looking for that ideal virgin.

same - most girls had it lost at 15, 16 latest - 17 = hard pushed to find em.

a study found that intelligence negatively correlates with the age you lose your virginity(and I think the frequency/amount of sex)

so, smarter people lost their virginities later and had less sex in general

you think about what that means for your HS and the people in it

(and unfortunately my HS is filled with really smart girls)

 

[Purefilth]

a study found that intelligence negatively correlates with the age you lose your virginity(and I think the frequency/amount of sex)

so, smarter people lost their virginities later and had less sex in general

you think about what that means for your HS and the people in it

(and unfortunately my HS is filled with really smart girls)

I couldn't give a fvck buddy - i left school a decade ago and i'm doing fine.

 

[devilkingx2]

I couldn't give a fvck buddy - i left school a decade ago and i'm doing fine.

many people hated the people in their high school, I thought you might get some smug satisfaction from that

EDIT: you're 26 and left school 10 years ago? ...whaaaat?

 

[1-800-HellNo]

so, smarter people lost their virginities later and had less sex in general

I'm not sure if this is true, but it does make sense. I think really smart guys have a hard time with girls because they are only able to think of things logically, and that is a bad call when dealing with females.

I swear, talking to "high intelligence" guys about relationships is like talking to a brick wall. No matter what, they'll say something along the lines of, "that makes sense, but..." and just go with what logically makes sense AKA talking to girls like business partners and taking her words at face value.
There will probably be flowers involved as well.

 

[evan12]

I was looking and still for virgin girl to take her as a wife, but years passed quickly and I waked up to find my self 30 , and all around me are used goods , I am trying to return my youth and tune my body to reach the 22 who are some of them still virgins (especially the immigrant ones ) .