Why did you succeed/why did you not succeed in having sex on a regular basis?

[Philippe Schlichting]

Question1: Why did you succeed/why did you not succeed in having sex on a regular basis?

Question2: Was it trying out and having success that gave you the motivation to move forward?

Be detailed in your statements.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Q1:cant really tell cause there are weeks in which I make out with 3 girls in the same night before taking one at home while there are even dry spells long weeks or worse months.
Anyway the more my look improve the more girls I get thats for sure.

Anyway as PairPlusRoyalFlush said luck plays a role, sometimes its more the situation to make the success than your effort but you can help the luck yourself by increasing your value.

I see what kind of girls I have who are into me and those who are attracted but just lightly which more or the less give me an idea of my current value, I believe improving your own value has the biggest impact on variety and quality of your sex life in the same misure of your social circle or efforts.

Game is not a magic tool, its simply the best software to make your hardware running the best possible way, a tight game is like overclocking a cpu or make a program run on an old machine by optimizing it but if your resourches are not enough for something not software(game) can help.


Q2: success gives you self confidence which in turn allows you to invest in yourself even more therefore leading to more success, its a virtuous circle.

One cannot just decide "to be more self confident" since self confidence depends on your success and feedbacks you get from outside.

What motivates me actually is my ambition and greediness in every aspect of my life, I would rather work hard, take risks and even violate law to get what I want rather than being a good guy and settle for my current limits.

An average woman (nowadays overweight and nagging) just doesnt match my minimum requirement for happiness therefore Ill keep approaching hot girls and improve myself to match their value with no limits.

 

[YAboi]

^^^nice

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

One cannot just decide "to be more self confident" since self confidence depends on your success and feedbacks you get from outside.

I say/write that all the time but it's rare to see someone else write it.

That's also what my experience is, self confidence depends on success and not telling yourself over and over that you are awesome.

 

[Philippe Schlichting]

Question1: Why did you not succeed in having sex on a regular basis?

I did not succeed because women/men don't tell me what I am doing wrong and I don't see it.

 

[zekko]

I had hot and cold streaks early on, but the more I've built my real value the easier the women have come.

 

[iamnobody]

Q1: having balls / teleporting balls at home by overthinking
Q2: understanding failure

 

[floydb25]

Severe nice guy mentality; placing relationships / women on a pedestal; viewing sex as sacred; believing that women were pure and innocent, and wanted love and relationships before having sex; marriage-based thinking... Literally as they were trying to have sex, and hook up right away. Also, moral issues; thinking it was wrong to have sex, or that I had to prove my genuinity first. As well as severely low self esteem, and a plethora of issues and insecurities.

I succeeded because women viewed me as very attractive / hot, and didn't really have to do ****... they approached and initiated EVERYTHING (including sex), but they eventually got tired of my unassertive, shy, weak, predictable, boring, momma's boy, insecure sissy bull****. :cheer:

Missed a LOT of opportunities because of this. Even after getting chance upon chance with the same women.

"Stop being such a *****!"
"Yes dear; I love you!"

"I wanna ravage you!"
"What's your favorite color?"

HA HA HA. :nono:

 

[zinc4]

chatting up women on a regular basis always nets much more sucess for me...i try and make it a point to always at least try to number close one chick a day...it can be anywhere..on the street...at a gas station..anywhere I see one during regular life

But also this is an obvious factor, especially for more success at night clubs....lifting weights and running...a good body goes a long long way compared to a beer belly, which i develop if i stop working out..

When do i not have success? When i am not talking to new women on a regular basis and/or not going out on the weekends...

 

[Fly By Night]

Q1: (Why I succeed) I succeeded when I was just being myself and not trying to use "tactics" and using strategies to talk to women, I just presented myself, be a gentleman, but still show that I want to know them more than just friends. Another reason is some type of luck; I have to run into the right girl when she's in the right mood. There will be times a girl will not go after anyone because she is just in a sh!tty mood. Other times, she just has to be a sexually active woman who does not mind getting picked up by new guys.

Q1: (Why I lack success) I lack success when I, for one, don't put in as much effort into approaching and I find myself only approaching like 1 girl every 2 days. Often times, I don't even number close if I don't feel a connection. Other times are those that I mess up on escalation and getting from friends to FWB's.

Q2: No. I understand that there is a ridiculous amount of women out there in the world, so even if I were to actually approach 1000 women and get rejected by all of them, I still have a lot more options out there. Past success is just a way to reassure myself that I could do it again if I tried.

Cool thread, sometimes you need to specifically pin-point what you're doing wrong and fix it.