Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why did this happen?

volfe

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Ok, so I was on a cruise with my family about a month ago. It was about 12am and I didn't want to go back to my room because I had to share it with my two cousins who are about five years old and so they were asleep. I was just sitting in a chair reading, and this girl (I'd say probably about a 7.5) walked past and as she did so I looked at her right in the eyes and smiled and she smiled back.

So later, I was walking around and she saw me and came over. She was like "you look really familiar". As she was pretty, I decided I might as well try gaming her a little bit, but nothing really big. I basically just made some funny comments and stood up straight and tall. The result: less than 45 minutes later we were making out and groping right on the deck of the boat for like an hour (keep in mind we were both sober highschoolers). So, I think things worked out pretty well :).

What I'm curious about, is, why did she come over? I'm not bad-looking by any means (girls go googoo over my eyes, I'm 6'4" and I'm pretty lean (about 170 lbs)) but nothing really special. Was it simply physical attraction, as she was the one to come over? Or what was it? I dunno, but it made me feel good about myself. And just so you know, it wasn't some really intellectual book or anything, it was a dorky book about zombies, hehe.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kmart1208

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probably your initial eye contact. you probably displayed a lot of confidence to her. but 45 minutes damn thats good.
 
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