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Why did she change her mind ?

man_o_mystery

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I went out with a co-worker ( Big no-no, i know but what can I say ? I was thinking with my other head) for two dates, on the third she invited me over to her place to watch a movie.

We start making out and then she spoke in ******** to me, her words were "This feels like it's forced or something, something is not clicking"...I took that as a hint and left.

Why would she invite me over and then do a 180 ??? hmmm as if anyone would be able to answer that...
 

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Originally posted by man_o_mystery
I went out with a co-worker ( Big no-no, i know but what can I say ? I was thinking with my other head) for two dates, on the third she invited me over to her place to watch a movie.

We start making out and then she spoke in ******** to me, her words were "This feels like it's forced or something, something is not clicking"...I took that as a hint and left.

Why would she invite me over and then do a 180 ??? hmmm as if anyone would be able to answer that...
Be grateful it went down like that and just leave it all alone.
Dont dip your pen in company ink!

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Here's a story:

A scorpion was walking through the grass and came upon a river that he needed to cross but couldn't because he did not know how to swim. He spied a frog in the reeds and walked to the frog and spoke:

Good frog, would you please take me across the river upon your back?

The frog replies:
Mr. Scorpion, if I took you across the river you will sting me and I will drown.

The scorpion retorts:
Surely you know that if I stung you, I too would drown.

The frog considers the scorpions logic and agrees to take him across the river. Half way across the scorpion raises his rapier like stinger and plunges it into the frog's back; sending his paralyzing venom into his system.

As the frog's body seizes and the two begin to sink, he asks with a dying breath, Mr. Scorpion, why did you sting me?!! Now we will both will die!!

The scorpion calmly replies, Dear Frog, I stung you because.... It is my nature...


Just something to think about.... ;)
 
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