JdelaSilviera
Master Don Juan
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****y & funny is one of the best ways to create attraction, and if done correctly it will get you laid like a rockstar. Although it fails many times, and it´s not because you are too ugly, it´s because you misapply it.
The two biggest mistakes are 1) offending the girl instead of teasing, 2) not being congruent.
1) If you go out often, you will see that most guys have no problem telling a girl she is short or that she is fat, and of course this won´t get you laid. ****y funny should always be in a teasing and playful mode, you could say she is one of the dwarfs of Snow White instead. About being fat (sensitive point) you can only joke if she is a 9 or a 10
2)Not Being congruent, this is a big one mistake, and that´s the main problem with most guys. They read the material, and say "from now on I´ll be CF"... what happens is they end doing CF remarks while acting nervous and their voice shaking. Actually I had one girl calling me recently to go out, and she was trying to be ****y and funny.... but her voice was shaking so much that I found her behaviour pathetic and politely refused.
So how can you be really and genuinely ****y and funny? You get a huge oneitis
Ha?
Summer was here, and I had several crushes, until I meet the perfect girl. And I´m not kidding, this is the type of woman I want to marry, once again she is perfect in everyway possible but I´m not gonna get into details.
I´m not in love per se (I´ll get her in a few years when I want to marry now is fun time), but meeting the perfect girl made me realize that 80% of women
are an absolute joke. When you realize that there are perfect girls (and that you can get them) out there you suddenly don´t give a crap about other women. The pure CF stuff....I remember talking after the summer with some girls that previously made me nervous, and I could came with the most bold sexual stuff, making fun of them. and laughing at their face of admiration (they would laugh at the end too), because I know that I can get much better, and even if I couldn´t there are out there girls that are much superior to those you meet, so why being nervous?The girls you are talking to are probably just ok!
This reasoning could also be applied to my perfect girl, there are always better girls, so don´t give a sh*t... The more you want something,the more you are likely to fail.
Getting this girl probably skyrocketed my confidence, but this really got me into the right mindset. I always knew it´s good to have an abundance and don´t care mentality but only now I can behave that way.
Summary: Actually You only need a mental concept of a perfect girl in your mind ( I had the luck of meeting her), the only way you could be perfectly happy, and then you compare your idea to the girls you meet, you see that they have no chance and aren´t as good, and you suddenly don´t give a fvck. Women do the same with their ideas of prince charming BTW, they compare you to a perfect man, that´s partially why most of the times they are so cool (don´t give a fvck atittude) with most guys.
Hope this helps some of you
The two biggest mistakes are 1) offending the girl instead of teasing, 2) not being congruent.
1) If you go out often, you will see that most guys have no problem telling a girl she is short or that she is fat, and of course this won´t get you laid. ****y funny should always be in a teasing and playful mode, you could say she is one of the dwarfs of Snow White instead. About being fat (sensitive point) you can only joke if she is a 9 or a 10
2)Not Being congruent, this is a big one mistake, and that´s the main problem with most guys. They read the material, and say "from now on I´ll be CF"... what happens is they end doing CF remarks while acting nervous and their voice shaking. Actually I had one girl calling me recently to go out, and she was trying to be ****y and funny.... but her voice was shaking so much that I found her behaviour pathetic and politely refused.
So how can you be really and genuinely ****y and funny? You get a huge oneitis
Ha?
Summer was here, and I had several crushes, until I meet the perfect girl. And I´m not kidding, this is the type of woman I want to marry, once again she is perfect in everyway possible but I´m not gonna get into details.
I´m not in love per se (I´ll get her in a few years when I want to marry now is fun time), but meeting the perfect girl made me realize that 80% of women
are an absolute joke. When you realize that there are perfect girls (and that you can get them) out there you suddenly don´t give a crap about other women. The pure CF stuff....I remember talking after the summer with some girls that previously made me nervous, and I could came with the most bold sexual stuff, making fun of them. and laughing at their face of admiration (they would laugh at the end too), because I know that I can get much better, and even if I couldn´t there are out there girls that are much superior to those you meet, so why being nervous?The girls you are talking to are probably just ok!
This reasoning could also be applied to my perfect girl, there are always better girls, so don´t give a sh*t... The more you want something,the more you are likely to fail.
Getting this girl probably skyrocketed my confidence, but this really got me into the right mindset. I always knew it´s good to have an abundance and don´t care mentality but only now I can behave that way.
Summary: Actually You only need a mental concept of a perfect girl in your mind ( I had the luck of meeting her), the only way you could be perfectly happy, and then you compare your idea to the girls you meet, you see that they have no chance and aren´t as good, and you suddenly don´t give a fvck. Women do the same with their ideas of prince charming BTW, they compare you to a perfect man, that´s partially why most of the times they are so cool (don´t give a fvck atittude) with most guys.
Hope this helps some of you
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