Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You should be the one knowing it.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Great. Go join a comedy forum, then. How many judges do you think there are out there who use curse (also called "vulgar") words in their day-to-day jobs? How many neurosurgeons? Perhaps you'd care to rethink that argument...
I would hardly call the small handful of banned words on the forum a plethora. For that matter, why is this even an issue? Are you DJ's so tight with your game offline that you have nothing better to do with your time then sit around on the computer whining about not being allowed to curse on an internet forum? You know what, YOU are ridiculous. Point in case.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah, poor Charles Dickens.Originally posted by Hot Ice
I don't think it would be good for removing the whole censor system...
BUT I'D LIKE TO USE WORDS LIKE PUSSY INSTEAD OF VAGINA!
And how about Charles ****ens??
Poor fella.
I'm glad word ASS isn't a curse word anymore.