"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why can't we laugh and see the humor in all this??
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
galmorphus said:
Haha, I subscribe to their YouTube channel. And yes, sometimes. I don't usually start off with that stuff like the SimplePickup guys, but once we get some girls in conversation, I randomly drop stuff like that. Bodybuilding.com Misc section has some gems too
it is funny, but I mean our emotions to reproduce still can have us feeling down event though our outside knows it is all fun and games your emotions could have you feeling like crap. As long as you know how to work through it and be true to yourself