"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why can't more fat women do like this one?

mrRuckus

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Getting fat to begin with is already usually a huge indication of how much of a failure you have been even if you managed to get thin eventually.

How you can sit there starting at being thin while you get fatter and fatter and do nothing about it until you're about to pop, I have no idea. A normal, healthy person starts putting on a bit of weight then looks at themselves and goes "sh1t, i'm chubby" and fixes it. I've been through this with a dozen friends by now who have reversed their issue before it becomes a real problem.

Being the other type of person who has to hit near bottom before doing something to reverse things, I think says a lot about you mentally.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I love how the add on this page says "Single? Browse thousands of local SSBBWs!" LOOOOOL.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Lack of will power + lack of funds for gym memberships and healthy food = big fat belly.
Lack of willpower? Yes. That is tough to overcome.

Lack of funds for a gym membership? Not needed. Ever since I bought the portable monkey bar gym, I haven't need a gym in years.

Then there's also combat conditioning.

As far as eating healthy food, yea, that's tough. I can only eat healthy for so long before falling off the wagon.

But not having money for the gym is no excuse.:box:
 

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taiyuu_otoko said:
Lack of willpower? Yes. That is tough to overcome.

Lack of funds for a gym membership? Not needed. Ever since I bought the portable monkey bar gym, I haven't need a gym in years.

Then there's also combat conditioning.

As far as eating healthy food, yea, that's tough. I can only eat healthy for so long before falling off the wagon.

But not having money for the gym is no excuse.:box:
Fitness19 has a base membership of $19 a month and you can get it for as cheap as $5 a month if you catch a special deal.
 

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There's plenty of reasons.

They might not give a sh**.

They might have low self esteem and honestly believe that they can't or do not deserve to lose weight.

They might want to lose weight, but not badly enough to actually do something about it.

They might have been abused/etc in their past, and building a layer of fat between themselves and the world is their way to shield.

Or they just plain lazy and/or stupid.

There's as many reasons for fat women as for fat men.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Had this quote posted on my FB by a fat chick...

Yes, I weigh more than you do. No, it doesn't mean I'm less healthy than you are.
Ummm, yes it does. You can't move as fast as me, you're putting yourself at risk for diabetes, you can get infections in between your rolls, and it's very possible that you have all of the above and aren't telling me.
 

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If as a man society told you it was ok to be a 300 lbs fatazz...if hollywood made sitcoms and movies about it....if a woman divorced you for getting fat she had to give you the house and all her money...if even as a lardo dude, hb chicks 2 or 3 notches above you hit on you late in bars to possibly get their puzzies wet...WHY THE FVCK WOULD ANY MAN WORKOUT EVER...

this is how fat women have it today
 

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Burroughs said:
If as a man society told you it was ok to be a 300 lbs fatazz...if hollywood made sitcoms and movies about it....if a woman divorced you for getting fat she had to give you the house and all her money...if even as a lardo dude, hb chicks 2 or 3 notches above you hit on you late in bars to possibly get their puzzies wet...WHY THE FVCK WOULD ANY MAN WORKOUT EVER...

this is how fat women have it today
sad but true and it isnt going to change in a hurry, obesity costs society a small fortune in health costs, but even this seems to be overlooked, even women cant ***** at guys for being fat because women can beat even men at being fat
 

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If any guy even *considers* putting his d!ck into a girl like the "before" pic, he should just shoot himself and get it over with. That is just morbidly disgusting.

But what I find equally disturbing are the myriads of cute girls I see who are maybe 20 lbs overweight. You know the ones, you can see the little belly underneath their too tight shirt. These girls have no incentive to drop the baby fat because a billion chumps will still bang them.

I do my part by ignoring and refusing to bang these girls. To lose 100 lbs takes intense self disciple and maybe even years of it. To lose 10 or 20 lbs? Eat right and hit the treadmill once a week for a month or two. So simple but like I said, what's their motivation when orbiters gonna orbit...

mrRuckus said:
How you can sit there starting at being thin while you get fatter and fatter and do nothing about it until you're about to pop, I have no idea. A normal, healthy person starts putting on a bit of weight then looks at themselves and goes "sh1t, i'm chubby" and fixes it.
Yes. Any self respecting person takes action. I've been through this a couple times in my life, where I realized "oh sh!t, I'm starting to look a tiny bit sloppy" and immediately action was taken. The irony is that my standard for being out of shape is still in better shape than 80% of people I see out there. But you got to catch it early before it's a problem. I'm actually in one of those periods right now. If you look in my fridge right now there is only vegetables, fruit, and lean meat. I got complacent on working out/exercising so I've been hitting that hard the past month. Already a noticeable difference. It's not that hard. Catch it early and respect yourself.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Once in a while I see a fat chick and think "If more fat women looked like her, men would quit complaining." These are the women who keep a nice waist-hip ration, and have the genes for beauty regardless of poundage.
I knew one who looked like Susan Sarandon, squished down to 4'11", but the same weight.
I don't meet very many of these women.
 
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