Why can't I stop thinking of her

[phil]

i met this girl 3+ yrs now really love each other back then shes finishing her college degree pretty soon iv finished 3 yrs back

suddenly she changed.say she need someone to finance her schooling that im not living up to that and shes breaking up

i begged her not to cos i really tot im going to marry her
today its up to 8 months now since iv contacted her either through mail or phone

this month is our birthdays i refuse to send her a word but when my day came she sent me some"God love you" word

the truth remains i cant help but think about her everyday
need advice

 

[Acq]

go out, talk to girls, date and have sex. and yes it works

 

[Byezbozhniy]

Well, God loves you, but she obviously doesn't. Of course it's hard, but it happens. It happens to (almost) everyone at some point, and unfortunately you're no different.

Take the advice that is ALWAYS given here. Spend time on yourself, appreciate the good things in life (no matter how small), and best of all, go and get another chick.

Good luck.

 

[ELITE]

Just do the NC have you read it, thats your best bet. You need to man up and put your foot down. If she just wants you for money, forget her!

 

[Soprano]

i aint sayin shes a gold digger

 

[V2Logger]

i aint sayin shes a gold digger

Dude, 8 mo. is quite sometime. I just past 3 mo. with my ex. Tommorow is her b-day. I felt like doing something too. I have been more than 60 days NC now, it was rough. I had a hard time with the thought of sending her a card, text, etc... But I would be ruining myself if I did. I will do my best not to feel weak and send her something tommorow, I have distractions planned already. I just feel I will do more harm than good. I ask myself "what are your expectations?" then the thought really deflates. It will just boost her ego, and make her see that I am living in the past, a good story to tell her followers. Late.

 

[Tyson420]

So basically... She said she's a gold digger.

Why are you so hung up on her? These are the kind of girls that would ruin your life.

 

[f283000]

why can't you stop thinking of her? because you got no other options! if you don't go out and meet other girls you will get oneitis.

If you are a guy with an active lifestyle, lots of friends and you go out and meet other girls you won't have this problem.

 

[Soprano]

why can't you stop thinking of her? because you got no other options! if you don't go out and meet other girls you will get oneitis.

this is very very true!!!!!! its a fact!!!!