"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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why can't i perform properly especially when she's on top?

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so again, we had sex just before.. it seems to take me quite a while to cuum. i guess thats good for her though because she seems to enjoy it. but i think she's a bit loose, i dunno if that has to do with her not being a skinny girl (shes not fat, but not thin either) - im pretty sure its that because she is sooo wet that i sometimes cannot get myself off at all. its still great but yeah... now when she gets on top, either she doesnt know what shes doin or i dont (i havent done this position much before when shes on top because it never works for me) - i kinda get soft and she kinda just sits on it flat and moves a little - in porn i see the girl lean forward toward the guy and slide up n down the d!ck. ahh well i dont wanna think about this too much. just wanna try new things cause i aint done many positions. also, with skinny girls its kinda easier to get into positions and especially when they are on top cause they can move easier so i guess it might just be cause shes a little big. (shes going to gym though so hopefully she loses the extra weight)

btw. this was waaay better than the first time. i guess it only gets better :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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LoneWolf said:
so again, we had sex just before.. it seems to take me quite a while to cuum. i guess thats good for her though because she seems to enjoy it. but i think she's a bit loose, i dunno if that has to do with her not being a skinny girl (shes not fat, but not thin either) - im pretty sure its that because she is sooo wet that i sometimes cannot get myself off at all. its still great but yeah... now when she gets on top, either she doesnt know what shes doin or i dont (i havent done this position much before when shes on top because it never works for me) - i kinda get soft and she kinda just sits on it flat and moves a little - in porn i see the girl lean forward toward the guy and slide up n down the d!ck. ahh well i dont wanna think about this too much. just wanna try new things cause i aint done many positions. also, with skinny girls its kinda easier to get into positions and especially when they are on top cause they can move easier so i guess it might just be cause shes a little big. (shes going to gym though so hopefully she loses the extra weight)

btw. this was waaay better than the first time. i guess it only gets better :)
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Dude, if a girl is quite loose, I can only come from aggressive deep digging with her legs up around her ears. I've really only had one in the past year that was sooo big pussied that I had to resort to heavy pounding to come...and she was the second or third youngest I've fvcked in the past year. She was born with it. Good thing she made girly oinking noises to aid my arousal auditorialy to make me come. She Knew she had a deficit in the pvssy department. She was clingier than most with me afterwards. She was also bi with tongue ring, nose ring, but no tats, naturally tan-complected with wide hips but tone athletic, but sticky (not smooth) skin. We sweated a lot because it was during summer and because I had to work Soooo hard.
 
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ahh its the same with us. we get tired and hot because we work so hard to finish up. sometimes i just wanna finish because im so tired but i cant cause something down there aint right. i thought girls are loose because they have sex too much? can weight be a factor? anyway yeah i just try really hard and get into a good position to get off. starting to get the hang of it with her now.
 
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In my experience it is easier to ejaculate when you have sex with a girl from behind. When I wear a condom that is almost the only way for me to come.
 
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Because when she's on top she's the boss and you should just let her do her job, lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It is always difficult to come when a girl is riding. You feel the contact much less.
 
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It is always difficult to come when a girl is riding. You feel the contact much less.
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Agreed. Although often easier for her to come.

And be careful that she knows what she is doing and doesn't bend you the wrong way.

If you have to, let her on top so she can come, then go back into missionary, spread eagle her and nail her to the bed.
 
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Veridin said:
In my experience it is easier to ejaculate when you have sex with a girl from behind. When I wear a condom that is almost the only way for me to come.
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the same for me. from behind i get the best feeling. it's either that or me on top or sideways sometimes is okay. i wish it was like in the porn when the girl is on top of the guy sliding forward and backward on his d!ck :p
 
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Masterbating a lot can have this effect.

Happened to me in the past :rolleyes:


Naturally speaking, testosterone keeps us in the loop, yet all the porn as a sedating effect on our drive.

Keep off the porn, and try again :)
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I couldnt agree more! Has a huge negative effect on your sex drive... Also try using some intimate foreplay manuveurs, can heighten your sensitivity and prove more fruitful when you do get bag that bootay!

Gold :rolleyes:
 
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