Why can't i follow my own advice???

[stormwriter]

I talked to a chick on the phone for, get this...

TWO HOURS last night.

Actually, it was more than two hours. We talked twice in the same evening. At midnight i probably should have said "hey, it was nice chatting with you, but i need to get some sleep."

I wasn't being too AFC, but i was trying to justify in my head why i talked for that long. She did most of the talking, so i justified it by thinking, "I'm acertaining information as to whether she is a quality woman that is worth my time or not."

It's VERY hard to break old AFC habits. I'm not too disappointed in myself, but i knew i was breaking rules last night.


Get this though: On our date on Sunday, she sprayed my Abercrombie cologne down my shirt, and accidentally got some under her fingernail. She wanted her sister (who she had dinner with last night, and she was telling her about me) to smell the cologne i wear, so she was digging under her nails to get some of the smell to come back. haha.

Oh, random thought: Some guys here have used that AXE deodorant body spray. I heard from one woman that it stinks. Someone here mentioned "Phoenix" scent, but i didn't think that smelled too good. But the "Apollo" scent smelled AWESOME for a $3.95 can.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

It's very easy to be objective when reading other peoples stories on here, but hard to deliver in reality, so I've found. Just practise, and when you're doing something think about what advice you'd be given for that situation if you posted here.

If your "AXE" is the same as "Lynx" in Irl/ the UK , then a lot of girls I know love the Africa one best of all.

Oscar.

 

[dionysius_d]

habits

You are already ahead.. since you are aware of it now.

2000 years ago, someone said "why do you pick the speck out of your brothers eye, but fail to see the log in your own eye."

Its always easier to see others stuff than our own.. that's why we're here.

 

[Starman]

yo man..Ive talked with girls on the phone before..that I REALLY enjoyed..I wasnt being a shrink..or trying to win her by talking too long on the fone..

I just have fun talking with this person..and she makes me laugh all the time..

Just remember..if a girl talks to you for 2 Hours , she really digs you

 

[STR8UP]

It's not that big of a deal

Like Starman said, if she hangs on the convo for THAT long she's into you. Just don't make a habit of doing it every night.

I'm in the same situation. Last night I was on the phone for a LONG time. I tried to break it off a couple of times by saying she needs to get some sleep cause she has to work early, but she wasn't having any of that. (FYI- never use HER having to do something as an excuse to end a convo....she'll deny it if she wants to continue)

 

[spanky]

Sometimes I find it necessary to just let the conversation go for a bit to help build some sort of rapport with people you are dating simply because it is not always convinient to spend time with. If you do not see them much or talk to them much, how in the hell will a woman miss a guy who is mysterious and she never gets to talk to.

It probably isn't a good idea to stay on the phone longer than a few minutes too often but it becomes necessary in some situation.

I hope people are not trying to stick to all of these rules and theories hardcore with no flexibilty. Some should be followed without flexibility and some should be adjusted to fit certain situations.