Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why can't girls attracted to me answer my question?

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Masked_angel

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Hey guys,
Every time I ask a girl, "what is it about me that makes you attracted to me". They always answer with, "I don't know".

I have once got the respond, "Cute", "friendly" and "You take what you want". But the most cases its "I don't know".

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Never again will you ask a woman that question. Ever. It reeks of AFCness.

Did you ever notice a drop in interest after asking that question, or the feeling that the wind had went out of the sails? As is so often said, the female attraction process is entirely emotional, the grand sum of so many things. By asking that question, you incite her to create a logical response, and since we know women are highly lacking in that department, her thoughts will go the way of "Well, I can't really find a logical reason; maybe I'm not so attracted after all." Coinciding with the insecurity such questioning displays, it's a lose lose.
 
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You gave me exakt the answer I wanted thanks, Unbridled_Phoenix :)
 
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