"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why can't girls attracted to me answer my question?

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Masked_angel

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Hey guys,
Every time I ask a girl, "what is it about me that makes you attracted to me". They always answer with, "I don't know".

I have once got the respond, "Cute", "friendly" and "You take what you want". But the most cases its "I don't know".

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Masked_angel
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unbridled_Phoenix

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Never again will you ask a woman that question. Ever. It reeks of AFCness.

Did you ever notice a drop in interest after asking that question, or the feeling that the wind had went out of the sails? As is so often said, the female attraction process is entirely emotional, the grand sum of so many things. By asking that question, you incite her to create a logical response, and since we know women are highly lacking in that department, her thoughts will go the way of "Well, I can't really find a logical reason; maybe I'm not so attracted after all." Coinciding with the insecurity such questioning displays, it's a lose lose.
 
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You gave me exakt the answer I wanted thanks, Unbridled_Phoenix :)
 
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