"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why Being A Don Juan is 90% Attitude...and 10% technique

Don Corleone

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nice post pvssy,

a positive attitude not only makes you more appealing to everyone around you, but it makes you happy as well.

Because if you don't have a positive attitude, then you are b!tching all the time, and are mad, and who benefits from that? certainly not you.

I am a firm believer that in order to love another, you must first love yourself. Work on yourself, the inside, the out, and once you are who and what you want to be, you will be happy with or without a female by YOUR side.

People are drawn to this, it is a side affect, if you will. If you are happy with yourself, then you will be a truly confident person, not some poser. You will draw females to you with just your aura.

I like your post, and totally agree. Having a positive attitude is just one attribute you must have, in order to be the total package. Nice job.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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