"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Big-J
And he's at it again!
Should we start the minimum betting at $10 and watch the pot grow, or go a bit higher?
You wanna use Paypal or a money order?... I don't use credit cards.
diplomatic_lies
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Hell, that's what I do. Beats Solitaire (I STILL can't beat that stupid piece of sh*t).
Never thought of that. I've gotta try that after college.
"As you can tell, the latest graph shows the company lost money in the fourth quarter." "Freaking spammer!" "Yes, we do blame the spammers for our loss. What can we do?" "Ban his ass!" "Hmm...That's radical. What about Wilson in Financing?" "Moved to Anything Else." "Brilliant! You're promoted." *Looks up from screen* "Huh?"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
LoL, I only post on this forum from my office computer. Most days when nothing is going on, it is a great way to pass the time. That and ebaumsworld.com
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