If u have been wondering why a girl chooses the bad boy over the nice guy, your search is over because i have the answer.
The main problem with the Nice Guy (a.k.a Wimpus Americanus) is that he has the inability and/or unwillingness to ever say "no" to a woman. He thinks that they way to a womans heart is by HEr dominating HIM.
The Jerks view is the opposite of the nice guy. He feels that if he dominates women and never say's "yes" he will be successful in love.
Well guess what... They're both wrong.
The woman views the nice guy as "weak" because he can never say no and the jerk also as weak because her can never say "yes"
Initially the female will choose the jerk over the nice guy because she views dominance as a male strength quality.
Only in time will she see that the jerk is jealous and possessive and that's when she will leave him.
The problem with the nice guy is that he thinks that "sensitivity" is the key to women. He goes to the magazine store and reads up polls taken by "experts" to find out what women want. He gets brainwashed by the experts and becomes more confused with women. The women can respect him, so they either get rid of him after they get "bored" or worse, the keep him around to be used as "the butler",, "Mr. fixit" and "Mr.shoulder to cry on". He begs for her approval and is just too happy to be there. He will never think of standing up to a woman. He truly is a lost soul.
I think there's a difference between the jerk and the bad boy. The jerk begs like the nice guy, he just never admits it. But the bad boy, he's all bad. he's the kind of guy that can't keep out of jail. He's ethnically and morally corrupt. He dominated woman, disrespect woman and sometimes abuses women. Beautiful women are attracted to him because she is vulnerable to diminance. He's what i call a "negative challenge". Women are drawn to him because he is a challenge, the nice guy and the jerk aren't a challenge. He doesn't take any "crap" which is why she respects him. The problem with the bad boy is that he is a bad influence on the woman. if she is NOT clinically sane and has low self esteem she will stay in this abusive relationship. If she is sane and has high self steem, she will leave when she realizes that she can't take his crap and disrespect no more.
So what's left?
The "Positive Challenge". He's a gentleman and he's a challenge. He has class and manner, always shows her respect, and says no when it's appropriate (when his idea is better than hers). When she try's to take advantage he calls her on it and smiles. He's no ones fool.
Guy,s this is the kind of guy that u have to become. Dont worry about being a jerk or a bad boy, because a classy woman will love u forever if u are a positive challenge. Don't get uptight when a guy hits on ur girl, just smile and take it as a compliment to ur taste instead of a threat to ur manhood. Badboys and jerks are uptight, show her ur different than them and she will love u because U are DIFFERENT.
-ratisson
The main problem with the Nice Guy (a.k.a Wimpus Americanus) is that he has the inability and/or unwillingness to ever say "no" to a woman. He thinks that they way to a womans heart is by HEr dominating HIM.
The Jerks view is the opposite of the nice guy. He feels that if he dominates women and never say's "yes" he will be successful in love.
Well guess what... They're both wrong.
The woman views the nice guy as "weak" because he can never say no and the jerk also as weak because her can never say "yes"
Initially the female will choose the jerk over the nice guy because she views dominance as a male strength quality.
Only in time will she see that the jerk is jealous and possessive and that's when she will leave him.
The problem with the nice guy is that he thinks that "sensitivity" is the key to women. He goes to the magazine store and reads up polls taken by "experts" to find out what women want. He gets brainwashed by the experts and becomes more confused with women. The women can respect him, so they either get rid of him after they get "bored" or worse, the keep him around to be used as "the butler",, "Mr. fixit" and "Mr.shoulder to cry on". He begs for her approval and is just too happy to be there. He will never think of standing up to a woman. He truly is a lost soul.
I think there's a difference between the jerk and the bad boy. The jerk begs like the nice guy, he just never admits it. But the bad boy, he's all bad. he's the kind of guy that can't keep out of jail. He's ethnically and morally corrupt. He dominated woman, disrespect woman and sometimes abuses women. Beautiful women are attracted to him because she is vulnerable to diminance. He's what i call a "negative challenge". Women are drawn to him because he is a challenge, the nice guy and the jerk aren't a challenge. He doesn't take any "crap" which is why she respects him. The problem with the bad boy is that he is a bad influence on the woman. if she is NOT clinically sane and has low self esteem she will stay in this abusive relationship. If she is sane and has high self steem, she will leave when she realizes that she can't take his crap and disrespect no more.
So what's left?
The "Positive Challenge". He's a gentleman and he's a challenge. He has class and manner, always shows her respect, and says no when it's appropriate (when his idea is better than hers). When she try's to take advantage he calls her on it and smiles. He's no ones fool.
Guy,s this is the kind of guy that u have to become. Dont worry about being a jerk or a bad boy, because a classy woman will love u forever if u are a positive challenge. Don't get uptight when a guy hits on ur girl, just smile and take it as a compliment to ur taste instead of a threat to ur manhood. Badboys and jerks are uptight, show her ur different than them and she will love u because U are DIFFERENT.
-ratisson
